"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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drixsa

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a little backround: I am going to be attending a small school come the fall and transfering after a year. My ACT score was very strong and I want to major in a business/economics/finance field and get my MBA once i have gotten my bachelors.

Anyone have any suggestions or opinions on schools??? (not just the ones listed below)

anything that i should look for specifically??

So far i have looked into Lehigh, Babson, Maryland, Penn, Wisconsin, UMich
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Interpol
Would you prefer public or private? Is money an issue (ie could you swing 40 grand a year tuition)?
Public or private is good. Liberal arts school or big university.

Money will not be an issue next year.
 

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today it is very difficult to get a good mba (top 10) straight after bachelor's. You have to go work for three years and come back.

Maryland would be a blast and Penn probably has top 5 finance and econ departments.

Let me ask you, do you have any ideas what you want to do afterwards?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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is 40 grand a year worth an education? i mean comm!on think about it. 40 grand? geez. i paid ten grand for my tuition and that was enough, to make me almost dropout.
 

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Originally posted by Coolage
today it is very difficult to get a good mba (top 10) straight after bachelor's. You have to go work for three years and come back.

Maryland would be a blast and Penn probably has top 5 finance and econ departments.

Let me ask you, do you have any ideas what you want to do afterwards?
I would like to own several of my own businesses (entrepreneur).
 

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what was your act score?
 

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Originally posted by Julian
what was your act score?
29, I should be able to up that number though. my GPA wasn't great through, low 3's.

But after a year of college that shouldn't matter too much as long as I produce all A's
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The top 4 ranked (US News & World) undergrad business programs are:

1. UPenn
2. MIT
3. Cal Berkeley
4. Michigan

Michigan will be the easiest of those to get into, Berkely is tougher, and MIT and UPenn are pretty damn tough (< 15%). I know other schools with good programs include UVA, Wisconsin, UT Austin, and any other Ivy league.

I'm currently a finance and accounting major at Washington University in St. Louis which is ranked around 10th. It's a great all-around school but expensive and pretty tough to get into.

I would personally recommend against schools like Lehigh that are private and expensive but really not all that great. You're probably better off going to a very good state school.

Also, as someone else pointed out, it's now generally preferred to have a few years work experience after your Bachelors before you pursue your MBA.
 

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Originally posted by drixsa
I would like to own several of my own businesses (entrepreneur).
what type of businesses? It does make a difference. for example, if you are going to open your own financial firm you should go for the top and go back for an mba after having some experience.

If you are going to start a chain of bars for example, your degrees wouldn't matter and all that would matter is the hustle you put in.
 

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Originally posted by drixsa
I would like to own several of my own businesses (entrepreneur).
some schools offer entreprenurship programs, not many tho...but you can start something while still in school.
 

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I don't think a 29 is going to cut it with Ivy League schools, unless you are black or hispanic, in which case you'll get in cause of Affirmative Action.

Business programs are tougher to get into than regular liberal arts degree programs and I know someone who applied and was declined to U of I Urbana with your ACT score for their liberal arts program. So I don't know.

You really don't have to go to a good school, especially if you are starting your own business. The name of the school matters some when you're applying to Fortune 500 companies maybe, but if you are your own boss youre not going to not hire yourself because your degree is from a ****ty school.

The most important thing is you learn the skills needed to run a business.
 

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I don't think a 29 is going to cut it with Ivy League schools, unless you are black or hispanic, in which case you'll get in cause of Affirmative Action.

Business programs are tougher to get into than regular liberal arts degree programs and I know someone who applied and was declined to U of I Urbana with your ACT score for their liberal arts program. So I don't know.

You really don't have to go to a good school, especially if you are starting your own business. The name of the school matters some when you're applying to Fortune 500 companies maybe, but if you are your own boss youre not going to not hire yourself because your degree is from a ****ty school.

The most important thing is you learn the skills needed to run a business.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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