"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ON Average how many IOIs do you get a day

how many IOIs do you get a day

  • 2

    Votes: 10 47.6%
  • 4

    Votes: 3 14.3%
  • 6

    Votes: 1 4.8%
  • 8

    Votes: 1 4.8%
  • 10

    Votes: 3 14.3%
  • 15

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 20

    Votes: 2 9.5%
  • 25

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 30

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 35+

    Votes: 1 4.8%

  • Total voters
    21

KneghtRyder

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* a girl will return EC
* a girl will stare at you ...etc
* smile at you


you catch my drift...com'on no one will be jealous of you ....just want to get an opinion on what the average is and how many do you take up on it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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L777

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I said 10 but if its a day when I have night out then many more obviously. I imagine we all get a lot of women looking and liking but don't give ioi's dues to shyness, or the fact they don't catch our eyes etc.

I love it when you get a fvcking obvious one and you don't act on it cos you're too busy or something, you feel like you're good enough to not even bother. This happened to me today...i was in a rush so I didn't stay, but she looked me head to toe, then looked me dead in the eyes and gave me a proper sexy smile. She was cute.

Thinking about it I really shoulda fvking sarged her. :D
 

lebRambo

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depends how I'm dressed usually. I put two for the average, but more when I'm dressed to impress :)
 

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I like Zan's attitude....everything a girl says and does is an IOI. So I'll put 1,000,000 IOIs per day. :D
 

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On average, I'd say I catch about 20 chicks a day checking me out. Depends on where I'm at, what I'm doing, and that only includes the ones that I catch ;) .
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Abbott

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Where do you put zero? I doubt that I, in fact, get zero. But I honestly don't pay much attention. It's never occurred to me to count them. The question is how many you notice, right?

Occasionally, women approach me if I'm on a night out on the town, but not usually.
 

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This thread is completely irrelevant and VERY SUBJECTIVE!!
 

In2theGame

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KneghtRyder said:
* a girl will return EC
* a girl will stare at you ...etc
* smile at you


you catch my drift...com'on no one will be jealous of you ....just want to get an opinion on what the average is and how many do you take up on it.
alot ;)
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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really, honestly, whats the point of this thread?

this is like those threads we have saying... rate YOURSELF 1-10 in looks, and how many girls want on top of you?... wait it IS one of those threads.

stop with the self-ego stroking threads when there is no reason to stroke your own ego.

it's like a contest or something...

guy1: i have 10 girls checkin me out.
guy2: well i have 20
guy1: actually... i had 21 girls...

man i wish i could get 20 girls like you all... keep in mind... we all don't think the same girls are hot... you could have butt-ugly girls checking you out and we don't even know it.

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the "IOI" dont mean SH1T if you don't do anything about it... now subtract the number of girls that you never talked to the girls that gave you IOIs... now thats your real number.
...ZERO!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Zero IOI's a day on average - but there is no category for that here I guess. (get the odd one once in a blue moon though)
 

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Too many to count :)
 

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I get approximately 7.5 IAST per day, but I can only do something for the 3.4 IGBO that are thrown at me from a 47 degree angle. Some times the 48 degree angle is similar, but really, when you're actually in a situation like that, a 47 degree angle is so much better for using an IAOI.
 

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~attrACTION~ said:
I get approximately 7.5 IAST per day, but I can only do something for the 3.4 IGBO that are thrown at me from a 47 degree angle. Some times the 48 degree angle is similar, but really, when you're actually in a situation like that, a 47 degree angle is so much better for using an IAOI.
Only if you triangulate and configure the pAImAI readings BEFORE taking into account the rate change in net interest determined from HB4-HB11. SQUARED, muthafuckas...
 
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