"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ON Average how many IOIs do you get a day

how many IOIs do you get a day

  • 2

    Votes: 10 47.6%
  • 4

    Votes: 3 14.3%
  • 6

    Votes: 1 4.8%
  • 8

    Votes: 1 4.8%
  • 10

    Votes: 3 14.3%
  • 15

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 20

    Votes: 2 9.5%
  • 25

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 30

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 35+

    Votes: 1 4.8%

  • Total voters
    21

KneghtRyder

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* a girl will return EC
* a girl will stare at you ...etc
* smile at you


you catch my drift...com'on no one will be jealous of you ....just want to get an opinion on what the average is and how many do you take up on it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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L777

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I said 10 but if its a day when I have night out then many more obviously. I imagine we all get a lot of women looking and liking but don't give ioi's dues to shyness, or the fact they don't catch our eyes etc.

I love it when you get a fvcking obvious one and you don't act on it cos you're too busy or something, you feel like you're good enough to not even bother. This happened to me today...i was in a rush so I didn't stay, but she looked me head to toe, then looked me dead in the eyes and gave me a proper sexy smile. She was cute.

Thinking about it I really shoulda fvking sarged her. :D
 

lebRambo

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depends how I'm dressed usually. I put two for the average, but more when I'm dressed to impress :)
 

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I like Zan's attitude....everything a girl says and does is an IOI. So I'll put 1,000,000 IOIs per day. :D
 

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On average, I'd say I catch about 20 chicks a day checking me out. Depends on where I'm at, what I'm doing, and that only includes the ones that I catch ;) .
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Abbott

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Where do you put zero? I doubt that I, in fact, get zero. But I honestly don't pay much attention. It's never occurred to me to count them. The question is how many you notice, right?

Occasionally, women approach me if I'm on a night out on the town, but not usually.
 

saber

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This thread is completely irrelevant and VERY SUBJECTIVE!!
 

In2theGame

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KneghtRyder said:
* a girl will return EC
* a girl will stare at you ...etc
* smile at you


you catch my drift...com'on no one will be jealous of you ....just want to get an opinion on what the average is and how many do you take up on it.
alot ;)
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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really, honestly, whats the point of this thread?

this is like those threads we have saying... rate YOURSELF 1-10 in looks, and how many girls want on top of you?... wait it IS one of those threads.

stop with the self-ego stroking threads when there is no reason to stroke your own ego.

it's like a contest or something...

guy1: i have 10 girls checkin me out.
guy2: well i have 20
guy1: actually... i had 21 girls...

man i wish i could get 20 girls like you all... keep in mind... we all don't think the same girls are hot... you could have butt-ugly girls checking you out and we don't even know it.

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the "IOI" dont mean SH1T if you don't do anything about it... now subtract the number of girls that you never talked to the girls that gave you IOIs... now thats your real number.
...ZERO!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Zero IOI's a day on average - but there is no category for that here I guess. (get the odd one once in a blue moon though)
 

MrS

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Too many to count :)
 

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I get approximately 7.5 IAST per day, but I can only do something for the 3.4 IGBO that are thrown at me from a 47 degree angle. Some times the 48 degree angle is similar, but really, when you're actually in a situation like that, a 47 degree angle is so much better for using an IAOI.
 

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~attrACTION~ said:
I get approximately 7.5 IAST per day, but I can only do something for the 3.4 IGBO that are thrown at me from a 47 degree angle. Some times the 48 degree angle is similar, but really, when you're actually in a situation like that, a 47 degree angle is so much better for using an IAOI.
Only if you triangulate and configure the pAImAI readings BEFORE taking into account the rate change in net interest determined from HB4-HB11. SQUARED, muthafuckas...
 
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