Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Since I started here, my personality has changed. This girl said that I have changed and have gone horrible. I don't think I have. I make people laugh and smile. I have LOADS more mates. I mean LOADS. like, I made bout 40 friends in the past 2 weeks. She says I hardly speak to her and I'm making people like her and a few of her friends want to kill themselves LOL I mean wtf. If anyone wants to add me on msn and I'll show them this part of the convo.

Wtf is going on? Someone please explain?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ace of Flames

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She's used to you being the old you. When you start to change, people will feel uncomfortable; Its just something you have to accept. They're either jealous of your improvements, or upset that you aren't under their control and influence anymore, or you're making them look bad, or you're making them feel left behind while you become a better person, or any number of other reasons.

If they're gonna kill themselves over you, let them. They obviously don't have much to live for if that's the case.
 
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Now a few people who used to go to my previous college are saying Im horrible now and up myself etc. I'll tell you why that is. Because I used to be a pushover and used to put myself down all the time. Now I'm super duper uber manically confident, It pours out of me in rivers. and now they know they cant put me down anymore cos they know I bite :p. and they're Pi$$ed bout it. shame
 
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That's weird i'm in the same but different situation. I used to be a pushover too but now i'm really confident and stand up for myself. For me, all my guy friends are saying "oh wow Biggie's actually growin some balls now" and they respect me for it, and the girls are becoming more attracted to me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Congrats guys, I'm in the same boat. Used to care more to my friends than MYSELF. YOU ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN YOUR LIFE. Many, I mean many, of people don't understand that. and when you do, you'll change for the better. I know I did, I now stand up for myself against anyone, I get what I want, especially when it comes to girls. I feel like I'm trying way less than before, yet I get much more! Last night I had met a girl at a party and proceeded to have sex with her that very night. And the very next day she wanted to go to dinner with me. But, I had other stuff going on in my busy life so I said NO. BUt she really wants to see me tonite so I might give in...;)

THis stuff really works guys!!! glad your changing!
 
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lol, thanks. I dont think Im ready for sex quite yet as Im 14. been offered it, but It would just mean alot of other things while trying to do my GCSE so no point having the hassle.
 
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