"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Since I started here, my personality has changed. This girl said that I have changed and have gone horrible. I don't think I have. I make people laugh and smile. I have LOADS more mates. I mean LOADS. like, I made bout 40 friends in the past 2 weeks. She says I hardly speak to her and I'm making people like her and a few of her friends want to kill themselves LOL I mean wtf. If anyone wants to add me on msn and I'll show them this part of the convo.

Wtf is going on? Someone please explain?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She's used to you being the old you. When you start to change, people will feel uncomfortable; Its just something you have to accept. They're either jealous of your improvements, or upset that you aren't under their control and influence anymore, or you're making them look bad, or you're making them feel left behind while you become a better person, or any number of other reasons.

If they're gonna kill themselves over you, let them. They obviously don't have much to live for if that's the case.
 
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Now a few people who used to go to my previous college are saying Im horrible now and up myself etc. I'll tell you why that is. Because I used to be a pushover and used to put myself down all the time. Now I'm super duper uber manically confident, It pours out of me in rivers. and now they know they cant put me down anymore cos they know I bite :p. and they're Pi$$ed bout it. shame
 
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That's weird i'm in the same but different situation. I used to be a pushover too but now i'm really confident and stand up for myself. For me, all my guy friends are saying "oh wow Biggie's actually growin some balls now" and they respect me for it, and the girls are becoming more attracted to me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Congrats guys, I'm in the same boat. Used to care more to my friends than MYSELF. YOU ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN YOUR LIFE. Many, I mean many, of people don't understand that. and when you do, you'll change for the better. I know I did, I now stand up for myself against anyone, I get what I want, especially when it comes to girls. I feel like I'm trying way less than before, yet I get much more! Last night I had met a girl at a party and proceeded to have sex with her that very night. And the very next day she wanted to go to dinner with me. But, I had other stuff going on in my busy life so I said NO. BUt she really wants to see me tonite so I might give in...;)

THis stuff really works guys!!! glad your changing!
 
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lol, thanks. I dont think Im ready for sex quite yet as Im 14. been offered it, but It would just mean alot of other things while trying to do my GCSE so no point having the hassle.
 
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