You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Thats pop culture for you.evesman said:That show is repetitive and stale. And predictable.
He didn't say a word about him, only about your obsession with a male.OTB said:Okay Solomon & others ------> Enough with all the Mystery bashing already! :box:
True because without the first season there wouldn't be a show and hence no thread. And without the first season you would not have learned about the seduction community; therefore no inane posts.OTB said:I know for a fvcking fact that if it wasn't for the first season of this show coming out, almost none of you would even be looking at this thread right now :cuss:
Way to build a fan base.OTB said:So stop all your corny b!tching & complainin' you fvckin' herbs![]()
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Don't get so worked up over a stupid tv show. It's just my opinion. Don't get an ulcer. It all a fix to get suckers to watch anyway.OTB said:This is the most ignorant post I've read in this thread...
AgreedMore Cowbell Please said:Don't get so worked up over a stupid tv show. It's just my opinion. Don't get an ulcer. It all a fix to get suckers to watch anyway.
STFU Tekniq! :box:Tekniq said:He didn't say a word about him, only about your obsession with a male.
Wow Tekniq, your unbelievable level of arrogance & ingorance on this forum never ceases to amaze me!Tekniq said:True because without the first season there wouldn't be a show and hence no thread. And without the first season you would not have learned about the seduction community; therefore no inane posts.
Bro, are you fvcking serious right now?!Tekniq said:therefore no inane posts.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Solomon said:lol @ me once trying the mystery method and the girls knew the routines by heart
PUHLEASE
Natural game>>>>any method
peace
p.s. lol @ Tyler Durden running Mystery out of L.A. and stealing his "business"