"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
OMG, The Pickup Artist Season 2 Episode 2 is on right now!
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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He didn't say a word about him, only about your obsession with a male.OTB said:
True because without the first season there wouldn't be a show and hence no thread. And without the first season you would not have learned about the seduction community; therefore no inane posts.OTB said:
Way to build a fan base.OTB said:So stop all your corny b!tching & complainin' you fvckin' herbs
If you just google their names, they don't appear to be working actors or anything.
http://www.myspace.com/iknowspoon
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Don't get so worked up over a stupid tv show. It's just my opinion. Don't get an ulcer. It all a fix to get suckers to watch anyway.OTB said:
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AgreedMore Cowbell Please said:
You actually have a point there...
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STFU Tekniq! :box:Tekniq said:
If it wasn't for what you so humorously call my "obsession with a male", you wouldn't have known anything about the Seduction Community & you'd still be a little AFC obsessing over your multiple one-ituses.
Not to mention, most importantly of all, ------> you wouldn't be writing your unfunny, little sarcastic posts on this forum right now
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Wow Tekniq, your unbelievable level of arrogance & ingorance on this forum never ceases to amaze me!Tekniq said:
Buddy ----> If I hadn't learned about the Seduction Community, than neither would have you!
Remind me again.... Who was the one who introduced you to the greatest Self-Improvement forum on the net?
You must learn how to display the simple virtue of proper gratefulness!
And
Bro, are you fvcking serious right now?!Tekniq said:
I'm not the one who spends 1/3 of all of his posts criticizing some thing that his friend wrote on the forum in a pathetic attempt to gain cred by others on this forum, and then spends another third of his posts writing corny one liners in response to serious questions.....
But it's okay bro, I still have faith that might make the attitude adjustment in regards to the way you act on the internet.... hahaha
Solomon
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lol @ me once trying the mystery method and the girls knew the routines by heart
PUHLEASE
Natural game>>>>any method
peace
p.s. lol @ Tyler Durden running Mystery out of L.A. and stealing his "business"
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
fourblueballs
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Solomon said:
Really now? What happened to him living in Hawaii? I know someone in Hawaii who's seen him riding his bike around.
I like the show because it's enjoyable to watch. Don't want to think about wheter it is realistic and all that but I like the concept and it is entertaining..
So having said that, what do you guys think about the winner? I think he is gay but has to figure that out! He really did some things where he was freaking me out! Especially in the grocery store and in the finall where he is with the blonde in the bedroom.. keeping his hand on her shoulder...
Anyway do think that season one was much better, you really saw those guys grow every time...