"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
OMG My New La Petite Salope arrived!!!
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
EricInTheHouse
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Can we get a pic of you wearing it?...
Enjoy that, Iqqi...
Enjoy that, Iqqi...
Purple-Haze
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Must've cost you a pretty penny!
I LOVE some of the dresses they have at VS. They are super cute and sexy.
I can't wait for the summer to arrive.
And yah Iqqi, do post a pic!
I LOVE some of the dresses they have at VS. They are super cute and sexy.
I can't wait for the summer to arrive.
And yah Iqqi, do post a pic!
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Six Hours Later
I posted this to be funny.
I really did get the Petite Salope dress in the mail today, and I really AM excited. It was right after I had read Lishy's responses on her thread, you know, some more of those "OMG its a girl asking for advice, and we are responding, what is the world coming to?!"
Ten minutes later I was trying on the dress, and about to call my friend (girl duh), and do the excited girly thing, when I noticed my sosuave forum beckoning from my computer screen. Took me 30 seconds of picturing the reactions to a thread like this, where I blubbered in the way only an excited girl can, about fashion.
Haha.
However, not ONE nasty AW accusation or kill the girl and burn the dress comment yet!
I think I am... proud!
Thanks for sharing in my excitement in such a tolerant way!
And for those of you wondering. If there was a female equivalent of sosuave, in their anything else section, there'd be threads like THIS one.
The dress looks more than amazing on.
On a side note, back to more testosterone friendly topics, I am watching Behind Enemy Lines for the first time ever, and it is fvcking GREAT! Run, Owen, run!
I posted this to be funny.
I really did get the Petite Salope dress in the mail today, and I really AM excited. It was right after I had read Lishy's responses on her thread, you know, some more of those "OMG its a girl asking for advice, and we are responding, what is the world coming to?!"
Ten minutes later I was trying on the dress, and about to call my friend (girl duh), and do the excited girly thing, when I noticed my sosuave forum beckoning from my computer screen. Took me 30 seconds of picturing the reactions to a thread like this, where I blubbered in the way only an excited girl can, about fashion.
Haha.
However, not ONE nasty AW accusation or kill the girl and burn the dress comment yet!
I think I am... proud!
Thanks for sharing in my excitement in such a tolerant way!
And for those of you wondering. If there was a female equivalent of sosuave, in their anything else section, there'd be threads like THIS one.
The dress looks more than amazing on.
On a side note, back to more testosterone friendly topics, I am watching Behind Enemy Lines for the first time ever, and it is fvcking GREAT! Run, Owen, run!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
EricInTheHouse
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Hey, dudes want their babes to be sexy, so your dress thread gives them ideas hence a contribution to the quest to be a Don Jaun...
Sexy starts with a woman working out on a weekly basis, eating right and taking care of her hair and skin.EricInTheHouse said:
Ain't no dress going to help if a woman doesn't have those areas covered. After all that dress has to come off sometimes eventually.....