omg, I am already worrying about new years

[tom121]

wow im so retarded today

i was on my way home from the skatepark, I noticed there was this a 8 asian chick. My attempt to bumped into her from earlier at the skatepark didn't work so after she left, I was like oh crap theres goes another one.

So I decided to leave because it was getting dark, then I saw her a blocks down (not looking directly at her), she saw me, for some reason it looks was like she was avoiding me. She went behind this wall, she started skateboarding (she was walking)... I was walking by her then she just keep on skating... I was gonna say "hi" but I chicken out again... she probably thought I was gonna talk to her so she had to get away

good thing i didn't approach her at the skatepark, i would've got a nasty ending and wouldn't go back to that skatepark again haha

 

[Evil-Rom]

oh man good thing you didnt approach since you obviously knew the result 100%

LuvMyArmyMan, go back to the kitchen.

 

[tom121]

funny thing is that was my 3rd time seeing her at the skatepark... she looked younger than me too (probably by 2~3 years old)

but i can't look at a persons age by how they look

anyway I learned my lesson by looking at her body language

 

[tom121]

also now I have 3 person on my list that MIGHT go with me

but I try not to keep my hopes up, I keep on looking

do you think I should buy the 2 tickets (one for me, one for the other girl)? because it gets more expensive, it could go from $60 at beginning then $80 when I found a girl to go with...

dang, I hate being guys have to pay

 

[zerocelcius]

SORRY to bust on your post like this but it reminded me of a story that happend to me...it might help you out and than agian you might not even read it... OMG!!!! (had to do it)


OK I was going through the toughest part of my life which made me a total a$$ Hole and at the same time it made me fearless!!!

My friends and his girl wanted to go to this theme party for New Years and They wanted me to go as well. Well My other friends were down to go as long as their were going to be girls there. Well The theme was Pacific Island and the Year before there were over 800 people there. SO we figured their had to be at least a few girls so we went......

4 of us guys and my friend and his girl... SO their you have it man we went stagg in the hopes of drunk girls wanting to start the New Year off with a bang... And I don't mean the Gang kind...

Well anyway the party was cool, but The Retired police and active police not working also heard of the party and made it their offical place to kick it for the festivities.

SO here we were with a bunch of cops and Old people. I mean it looked like a retirment home convintion.

It was horrible I got kicked out for starting a fight with a retired police man because he wanted to see my ID. I should have just showed it too him but like I said I wasn't in the mood for this ****.


My friends talked to the guy he came out later and appoligized to me and they allowed me back in. We drank made the best out of the situation and later we went back to the room's and LUCK WOULD HAVE IT that the next room over from us were a bunch of single chicks that also went to the party and were overlly happy to see sombody their age. We wound up having a good time with them and it turned out ok.

I guess the point is no matter how bad things look or get the key is to try your best to have fun and keep your head up. You never know what is going to happen.

 

[Player_Supreme]

oh no! already worrying about new years

Oh brutha. This is another one of those great and informative posts on how to meet women.

Let's keep up the good work fellas. I wanna see more educational posts that are truely important in our lives like this one!

 

[Spike_the_Dragon]

Go with the flow.

You have to know yourself in order to know others, and I think the best way to know yourself is to let go of yourself. Let yourself become like a mirror that reflects the inner most emotions and desires in others. Study yourself in interaction with other people, but don't try to force some fake act. This is what I mean by finding their void. You aren't compromising yourself by doing this, you are simply learing and socializing.

Conduct yourself as you would in your own home with the people that you know. Walk down the street as if it were your living room, greet strangers as you would old friends. If you are relaxed, they will be relaxed too. But for God's sakes, just don't walk around town in your underwear-- act like it's your house, but don't dress like it!


Remember also that pretty much all women are players, and a true player can smell a fake act faster than **** on a shoe. Now, I'm not saying that you should act all mushy and ****, but if you are too robotic then your seduction will fail. If you are too romantic, again, your seduction will fail. Hey, even Superman has his weakness. Be hot one day and cold the next--show some contrast. Toy with her emotions and her panties will get wet all the faster.

Remember, Women are submissive creatures! And that is why men must always make the initiative and approach women! This is just the natural order of things. Accept your nature as a man. Contrary to popular opinion, there is nothing wrong with being the man you were born to be. It is your birthright. Give into your desires as a man and go with the flow of your true nature.


Remember one last thing: Flowing water never grows stale. Keep on learning, keep on growing, keep on flowing. Always know that for every b!tch who isn't interested in you, there is a **** load of others who are interested... trust me, I know. Learn from your mistakes and move on.

 

[tom121]

Spike_the_Dragon: great tips

the thing is I am friendly to family, brothers, sister, parent's friends, bascially anyone I have known for a while.

It is hard for me to approach women, SOME of them get turned off by the way I look

http://img130.exs.cx/img130/4317/meh2.jpg

that's how I look like today. Now I know what my problem is, too skinny, acne, oily face. I've been working out for 4 months now, still doing it. I wash my face everyday with anti-acne and anti-oily products.

Everytime I read stories or tips on the board, I get the urge to go out there to meet women. I go out, everything back to where I was, I get scared. I am sensitive and shy, which is a problem I've been trying to improve over the 3 years.

I had several dates in my past years, never a 2nd date though. I was always the guy sucking up women for approval, I've changed. Now I don't do that anymore, but now the women seem to start ignoring me even more...

I need to find a way to make myself not scare to approach people, I mean I don't have a problem asking for direction or time, but I have a problem when it is an attractive girl, I get all jumpy and heart beating fast, etc.

 

[tom121]

by the way, the ticket pricing is $60 per one (if I get it early)

should I spend that $120 for 2 tickets, find a girl to go with me

but the thing is it would go waste if I couldn't find a girl

plus this male friend of mine said he might go, if he has the money

I don't wanna waste the money for some girl I don't know if she wants to go with me or be alone in new years

now I know I can meet girls at that dance, but they are probably with their friends so it's hard to approach them. Last time I was too drunk and on xtc I came up to 1 girl and got rejected BAD, but I was too high to worry about it so I laughed so hard and she just walked away. Another girl who was grinding my friend, I just grab her waist and sandwitched her, she looked back and she didn't push me back, that's a good thing...

anyway I have a bad feeling that I won't find anybody to go with, either my buddy or a girl, damn