omg grrrr! ... need a way to filter this if i can? .. lil help?

[Demonicale]

Ok so i'm FINALLY getting out their and speaking with women, as in actually grabbing my balls and approaching.

I managed to get 2 numbers the weekend, i thought "great i'm awsome!" lol

Turns out BOTH HAVE KIDS, even my fkbuddie has kids aswell.

My question is that how do you guys deal with this when getting numbers etc?, do you drop them if they have kids or just ignore it or what?...

Bear in mind i want a relationship and not a ****.

 

[Kailex]

Why do you want a relationship?

I don't get it, why do you want to just jump into it right away? Can't you just have a few plates and go out and maybe have a few FB's?

Granted, I wouldn't "date" a single mom, I don't see why you are so quick to discard options and just want to go straight for a relationship. I was doing the same thing and it definitely wasn't paying off.

Don't approach it with a relationship mentality, approach with a mentality to have fun and get to know more people and get your rocks off.

 

[theunflushables]

Never get into a relationship with a woman with kids. No matter what she says, you will end up playing daddy to her brats. Then there is all the hassle of her finding a babysitter for when you go out or bringing the kid along and 9 times out of 10 you will end up staying the night at hers which means no peaceful night in.

Don't go any further past the fvckbuddy stage.

 

[Demonicale]

Never get into a relationship with a woman with kids. No matter what she says, you will end up playing daddy to her brats. Then there is all the hassle of her finding a babysitter for when you go out or bringing the kid along and 9 times out of 10 you will end up staying the night at hers which means no peaceful night in.

Don't go any further past the fvckbuddy stage.

That's how I feel aswell, i do have one fkbud who has kids, but like you i never plan on going anywhere else with her.

Kailex

I want a relationship as i've done all the one night stands and everything, now i would like to try my hand at a proper relationship rather than meaningless thing's.

 

[marinetti]

So... you go out over the weekend, get a couple of numbers, they don't work out, so now you're frustrated?

Answers easy, meet more women.

I think a relationship is an admirable goal. But you can't say "I have a problem" after so few closes.

I haven't met any women over the past hour. Does that mean I'm never going to meet any women ever again?

 

[vatoloco]

Bear in mind i want a relationship and not a ****.

If that's your goal, then you have to ask yourself this question: "Am I willing to always come in second with her?"

If you are, then go for it.