"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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omg grrrr! ... need a way to filter this if i can? .. lil help?

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Demonicale

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Ok so i'm FINALLY getting out their and speaking with women, as in actually grabbing my balls and approaching.

I managed to get 2 numbers the weekend, i thought "great i'm awsome!" lol

Turns out BOTH HAVE KIDS, even my fkbuddie has kids aswell.

My question is that how do you guys deal with this when getting numbers etc?, do you drop them if they have kids or just ignore it or what?...

Bear in mind i want a relationship and not a ****.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why do you want a relationship?

I don't get it, why do you want to just jump into it right away? Can't you just have a few plates and go out and maybe have a few FB's?

Granted, I wouldn't "date" a single mom, I don't see why you are so quick to discard options and just want to go straight for a relationship. I was doing the same thing and it definitely wasn't paying off.

Don't approach it with a relationship mentality, approach with a mentality to have fun and get to know more people and get your rocks off.
 
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Never get into a relationship with a woman with kids. No matter what she says, you will end up playing daddy to her brats. Then there is all the hassle of her finding a babysitter for when you go out or bringing the kid along and 9 times out of 10 you will end up staying the night at hers which means no peaceful night in.

Don't go any further past the fvckbuddy stage.
 
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Demonicale

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theunflushables said:
Never get into a relationship with a woman with kids. No matter what she says, you will end up playing daddy to her brats. Then there is all the hassle of her finding a babysitter for when you go out or bringing the kid along and 9 times out of 10 you will end up staying the night at hers which means no peaceful night in.

Don't go any further past the fvckbuddy stage.
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That's how I feel aswell, i do have one fkbud who has kids, but like you i never plan on going anywhere else with her.

Kailex

I want a relationship as i've done all the one night stands and everything, now i would like to try my hand at a proper relationship rather than meaningless thing's.
 
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So... you go out over the weekend, get a couple of numbers, they don't work out, so now you're frustrated?

Answers easy, meet more women.

I think a relationship is an admirable goal. But you can't say "I have a problem" after so few closes.

I haven't met any women over the past hour. Does that mean I'm never going to meet any women ever again?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Demonicale said:
Bear in mind i want a relationship and not a ****.
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If that's your goal, then you have to ask yourself this question: "Am I willing to always come in second with her?"

If you are, then go for it.
 
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