"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Omega male?

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Hey. I know what's alpha and beta.. But now I'm watching show on discovery channel and they said something omega. What's omega?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The alpha male is the first in command he's the leader, the beta male is the second in command, and the omega male is the lowest in command. (like foot soldiers)
 

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The Omega Male is used by Dr. Paul Dobransky as an Eternal symbol of masculinity. In his status ladder, he promotes the notion of aspiring to be an OMEGA Male, rather than a temporary Alpha.

In other words, the Alpha in the wild, can be usurped and toppled from his postion and status.
But the OMEGA, has a LASTING, and DURABLE reign and/or Quality about him.

Typically the term Beta is used as the lowest denominator.
I don't know about the Discovery channel terminology though.
 

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omega male (fpr example in a group pf lions or wolves) is the one that is really sickly, or wounded, or mutated, etc. basically a goner. One who has no status, and cannot defend himself. Obviously he is completely out of competition for females.

This has parallels in the human race as well. Think of mentally retarded people, ones with bad injuries, genetic birth defects, etc. those guys cant be alpha or beta, and unfortunately, for them reproduction and spreading their genes is out of the question. They are the omegas.
 

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Very interesting. Thanks for the info, Vlad
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alpha: has a top pick of females/ is a leader / can be overthrown
Beta: can take those females that alpha doesnt want/ follower/ can beat the alpha and in turn BECOME alpha
Omega: lowest status/ no females/ no chence of rising higher

in that order
 

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It's a Charlton Heston movie. Recently remade with Will Smith as I am Legend.


(I know, I know, it was Omega MAN. Kidding.)
 
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