"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Omega male?

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Hey. I know what's alpha and beta.. But now I'm watching show on discovery channel and they said something omega. What's omega?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The alpha male is the first in command he's the leader, the beta male is the second in command, and the omega male is the lowest in command. (like foot soldiers)
 

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The Omega Male is used by Dr. Paul Dobransky as an Eternal symbol of masculinity. In his status ladder, he promotes the notion of aspiring to be an OMEGA Male, rather than a temporary Alpha.

In other words, the Alpha in the wild, can be usurped and toppled from his postion and status.
But the OMEGA, has a LASTING, and DURABLE reign and/or Quality about him.

Typically the term Beta is used as the lowest denominator.
I don't know about the Discovery channel terminology though.
 

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omega male (fpr example in a group pf lions or wolves) is the one that is really sickly, or wounded, or mutated, etc. basically a goner. One who has no status, and cannot defend himself. Obviously he is completely out of competition for females.

This has parallels in the human race as well. Think of mentally retarded people, ones with bad injuries, genetic birth defects, etc. those guys cant be alpha or beta, and unfortunately, for them reproduction and spreading their genes is out of the question. They are the omegas.
 

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Very interesting. Thanks for the info, Vlad
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alpha: has a top pick of females/ is a leader / can be overthrown
Beta: can take those females that alpha doesnt want/ follower/ can beat the alpha and in turn BECOME alpha
Omega: lowest status/ no females/ no chence of rising higher

in that order
 

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It's a Charlton Heston movie. Recently remade with Will Smith as I am Legend.


(I know, I know, it was Omega MAN. Kidding.)
 
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