"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Omaha shooter - the boy/girl

Luthor Rex

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For those of you into the whole 'manhood' thing, check this guy out:

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/22131295/

Scroll down about 1/2 way and you'll see this boy/girl thing that was the shooter. If the press had said it was a girl I would have believed them.

I know pseudo-intellectuals out there will say this has nothing to do with the shooting... as though our wills are not boxed in by our biology.

Anyone wanna bet on how this boy/girl thing was made fun of and 'snapped' because of it. Too bad someone didn't take the time to help it find a life proper to a human being.

:kick:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'd hate to be a "pseudo-intellectual" but I have to disagree with you. All you gotta do is read his background. This is not about his haircut, dude was severely troubled.
...spent four years in a series of treatment centers, group homes and foster care after threatening to kill his stepmother in 2002.
Well of course maybe his step-mother teased him about being a boy/girl....

MSNBC said:
The group homes and treatment centers were for youths with substance abuse, mental or behavioral problems. Altogether, the state spent about $265,000 on Hawkins, officials said.
Maybe the $265,000 was spent on making him not look like a boy/girl because that is obviously all society cares about right? :rolleyes:
 

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You know something, looking at his pictures, he looks alot like the younger version of the lead singer of "the white Stripes" or the lead singer of "Korn". Those guys went after their passions and succeeded so the excuse of "me looking a certain way or people treating me a certain way and I won't achieve anything " is a victimhood mentality. Its either you rise above it or you stay a loser for life. This guy choose to be a loser.
 

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DJDamage said:
This guy choose to be a loser.

People don't choose to be loosers. That choice is made for them when they don't know they can choose not to be loosers.




Wrong outlook on life and wrong education got him to that point. Every one is responsible. Society, public schools, his parents, his peers, everyone. That's what he attacked.
 

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Microphone Fiend said:
I'd hate to be a "pseudo-intellectual" but I have to disagree with you. All you gotta do is read his background. This is not about his haircut, dude was severely troubled.
With a haircut like that, I'd be severely trouble too!

Let's be honest here, you don't hate being a pseudo-intellectual; you love being able to masturbate to your own 'enlightenment'.


Microphone Fiend said:
Well of course maybe his step-mother teased him about being a boy/girl....
Really... can anyone blame her?


Microphone Fiend said:
Maybe the $265,000 was spent on making him not look like a boy/girl because that is obviously all society cares about right? :rolleyes:
Are you suggesting the only thing society cares about is looks? Well, yes a heavy importance is places on looks; which is why this is a woman's world.

Aside from that, we are flesh and that means our ******d looks are an indication of what is going on inside our bodies. The 'looks' we choose to have are an indication of what's going on inside our heads. This boy/girl decided he wanted to look like a M. Jackson clone.

Evolution gave us our thumbs and evolution gave us our brains. As much as a blow to most people's egos as it will be, our wills are boxed in by our biology. Choice is possible, but only the choices our biology allows us to have.

The brutal truth of our biology will piss off the conservative because it means god didn't make us, and it will piss off the liberal because it means there will be no new socialist man and no utopia however hard they make their plans.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mr. Wolf said:
People don't choose to be loosers. That choice is made for them when they don't know they can choose not to be loosers.

Wrong outlook on life and wrong education got him to that point. Every one is responsible. Society, public schools, his parents, his peers, everyone. That's what he attacked.
agreed 100%

our society is sick - whether we're talking the media, the family, politics, etc..

as a result we are producing more and more sick individuals. suicides, people amassing absurd debt, divorce rates, crime, etc. all of it continues to increase and reflects a society filled with individuals that are losing their minds.

if you look at society as a living organism these things are symptoms. and we've seen enough symptoms that we should be getting worried about the state of things in general.
 
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