"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Omaha shooter - the boy/girl

Luthor Rex

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For those of you into the whole 'manhood' thing, check this guy out:

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/22131295/

Scroll down about 1/2 way and you'll see this boy/girl thing that was the shooter. If the press had said it was a girl I would have believed them.

I know pseudo-intellectuals out there will say this has nothing to do with the shooting... as though our wills are not boxed in by our biology.

Anyone wanna bet on how this boy/girl thing was made fun of and 'snapped' because of it. Too bad someone didn't take the time to help it find a life proper to a human being.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'd hate to be a "pseudo-intellectual" but I have to disagree with you. All you gotta do is read his background. This is not about his haircut, dude was severely troubled.
...spent four years in a series of treatment centers, group homes and foster care after threatening to kill his stepmother in 2002.
Well of course maybe his step-mother teased him about being a boy/girl....

MSNBC said:
The group homes and treatment centers were for youths with substance abuse, mental or behavioral problems. Altogether, the state spent about $265,000 on Hawkins, officials said.
Maybe the $265,000 was spent on making him not look like a boy/girl because that is obviously all society cares about right? :rolleyes:
 

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You know something, looking at his pictures, he looks alot like the younger version of the lead singer of "the white Stripes" or the lead singer of "Korn". Those guys went after their passions and succeeded so the excuse of "me looking a certain way or people treating me a certain way and I won't achieve anything " is a victimhood mentality. Its either you rise above it or you stay a loser for life. This guy choose to be a loser.
 

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DJDamage said:
This guy choose to be a loser.

People don't choose to be loosers. That choice is made for them when they don't know they can choose not to be loosers.




Wrong outlook on life and wrong education got him to that point. Every one is responsible. Society, public schools, his parents, his peers, everyone. That's what he attacked.
 

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Microphone Fiend said:
I'd hate to be a "pseudo-intellectual" but I have to disagree with you. All you gotta do is read his background. This is not about his haircut, dude was severely troubled.
With a haircut like that, I'd be severely trouble too!

Let's be honest here, you don't hate being a pseudo-intellectual; you love being able to masturbate to your own 'enlightenment'.


Microphone Fiend said:
Well of course maybe his step-mother teased him about being a boy/girl....
Really... can anyone blame her?


Microphone Fiend said:
Maybe the $265,000 was spent on making him not look like a boy/girl because that is obviously all society cares about right? :rolleyes:
Are you suggesting the only thing society cares about is looks? Well, yes a heavy importance is places on looks; which is why this is a woman's world.

Aside from that, we are flesh and that means our ******d looks are an indication of what is going on inside our bodies. The 'looks' we choose to have are an indication of what's going on inside our heads. This boy/girl decided he wanted to look like a M. Jackson clone.

Evolution gave us our thumbs and evolution gave us our brains. As much as a blow to most people's egos as it will be, our wills are boxed in by our biology. Choice is possible, but only the choices our biology allows us to have.

The brutal truth of our biology will piss off the conservative because it means god didn't make us, and it will piss off the liberal because it means there will be no new socialist man and no utopia however hard they make their plans.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mr. Wolf said:
People don't choose to be loosers. That choice is made for them when they don't know they can choose not to be loosers.

Wrong outlook on life and wrong education got him to that point. Every one is responsible. Society, public schools, his parents, his peers, everyone. That's what he attacked.
agreed 100%

our society is sick - whether we're talking the media, the family, politics, etc..

as a result we are producing more and more sick individuals. suicides, people amassing absurd debt, divorce rates, crime, etc. all of it continues to increase and reflects a society filled with individuals that are losing their minds.

if you look at society as a living organism these things are symptoms. and we've seen enough symptoms that we should be getting worried about the state of things in general.
 
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