"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Being_the_Don

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I've been thinking about something for a while now. Fixed bars ie those where the weights are already fixed on the bar are smaller and weigh less than Olympic barbells. Yeah, that's obvious, right? Well, it wasn't to me for some reason. When I barbell bench press and do my deadlifts I always use the Olympic bar. And since about 1 month ago I've been using the Olympic bar for the standing barbell overhead press, too. Olympic bars weigh about 45 pounds. Now when I think about all of those lifts with the Olympic bar, I was not counting the weight of the bar itself. So looking at the flat bench barbell press, currently I'm lifting at 130 pounds w/o adding the weight of the bar. When I include the bar that weight increases to 175 pounds. My deadlifts therefore are much higher than what I had thought. My 1 RPM is 345 pounds w/o counting the bar. When the bar is added that number goes up to 390 pounds. My average is 320 pounds w/o counting the bar.

My question is: do the rest of you add the weight of the bar when talking about your squats, deadlifts, barbell bench press, etc. ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Of course. Why wouldn't we? I mean, the bar is also under effect of the gravitational force(s).
 

Cry For Love

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We would never ignore a chance to boost our egos! Be it doing quarter squats with big loads or adding the weight to the bar and ad
 

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To answer your question, yes. A better question is, do you add the 45 to your legpress total, some do others do not. They argue it's because of the 45 degree angle that it shouldn't count, doesn't matter to me since I haven't leg-pressed in over 2 years.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Funny.. I thought the same as you thing until Quagmire pointed this out to me this past Janruary.
 

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Thanks, everyone. I feel like such a newbie now. LOL! As kerpal said I can now add 45 pounds to all those lifts. As for the legpress, I don't do them anymore. I did many months ago but I traded them out for dumbbell squats. I heard or read somewhere that legpresses weren't very effective for training the legs. Is this true?
 

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Being_the_Don said:
Thanks, everyone. I feel like such a newbie now. LOL! As kerpal said I can now add 45 pounds to all those lifts. As for the legpress, I don't do them anymore. I did many months ago but I traded them out for dumbbell squats. I heard or read somewhere that legpresses weren't very effective for training the legs. Is this true?
This is not true. Have you ever seen Ronnie Coleman do a leg workout? Check it out youtube. He uses leg presses for sure. My theory is no exercise is useless. I'm all about muscle confusion. I change my workouts every 2-3 weeks so my muscles never know what to expect and cannot adapt effectively to my routine. One week I'll do squats + romanian DLs. Maybe two weeks, then change to good mornings, farmer's walk, leg presses. You get the idea. Keep changing it up and you'll get huge in no time.
 
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