"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oldest age woman you'd have sex with?

mrskinnypantz

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I’m 28 , I would bang a 50 yr old if she was hot.
Nasty ,I know :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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2Rocky

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When you have a 50 yo. everyone thinks is under 40, age isn't such a big deal.
 

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50 can be ok, but 70? Lol.
no lie I probably would go upwards to 60
I’ve seen some really well kept 60’s that wear hairstyles that enhance their looks and are very well kept which I found was a turn on but I can’t go over 60, but who knows? If you wanna hear god laugh tell him your plans.
 

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I did pull some really old woman about 2 years back. She looked a lot younger in the club than when I got her back to hers!
I think she was about 50 lol. It's funny because in my social circle i'm known as the guy who's usually trying to hook up with the 18 year olds in the bar
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I did pull some really old woman about 2 years back. She looked a lot younger in the club than when I got her back to hers!
I think she was about 50 lol. It's funny because in my social circle i'm known at the guy who's usually trying to hook up with the 18 year olds in the bar
I like the 18-19 year olds too
 

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I like the 18-19 year olds too
They're infinitely hotter. I mean to my tastes. I know some guys prefer milfs and stuff, but to me 18 is the peak. Shame they're so difficult. At least here it's like you either need to be in their social circle, OR be VERY much her physical type. Rough odds, but the chase is still kinda fun

I could get laid a lot more if I was content with girls my age haha
 

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They're infinitely hotter. I mean to my tastes. I know some guys prefer milfs and stuff, but to me 18 is the peak. Shame they're so difficult. At least here it's like you either need to be in their social circle, OR be VERY much her physical type. Rough odds, but the chase is still kinda fun

I could get laid a lot more if I was content with girls my age haha
They are hotter and seems like to me at the peak of their feminine energy . As women get older they expect and think they are entitled to a commitment straight off the bat (wtf?) and demand a certain amount of income
I eventually gave up after getting an 18 year olds number . She was a Latina with a big ol fat ass.
sometimes she would respond , sometimes she wouldn’t , eventually I just said **** it.
If she’s fresh out of high school it’s a good chance she’s still mentally stuck on chad lite.
 

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If she’s fresh out of high school it’s a good chance she’s still mentally stuck on chad lite.
yeah, I know nobody wants to hear it on a 'game' forum, but that's sort of my experience too with the really young ones.
 

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35 is my limit unless she’s an absolute knockout.
I think the real question is: how young will you go?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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For me until 45 is ok. But I don't care too much if there is a good chemistry, attraction and connection.

But anyways, its always good having sex with younger girls. I'm going out with a 22yr girl and we're having a very nice time and sex. As my past experiences, if the woman is not crazy or psycho like I used to met those last months, its a greaatttt start.
 

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For me until 45 is ok. But I don't care too much if there is a good chemistry, attraction and connection.

But anyways, its always good having sex with younger girls. I'm going out with a 22yr girl and we're having a very nice time and sex. As my past experiences, if the woman is not crazy or psycho like I used to met those last months, its a greaatttt start.
Blacksheep getting it in? I guess he's out of his families reach as well.
 

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When you have a 50 yo. everyone thinks is under 40, age isn't such a big deal.
Oh yeah...
At my age, my demographic is mostly 40s into early 50s... though I would consider up to my age and maybe a little older... IF she looks good for her age.

Just yesterday I had a first date with a 54yo... though like myself, she looked more like mid-40s (and quite gifted in the chest department :D )
We're getting together again at some point during this week (prob thur or fri) and it does look like things are gonna get physical ;)
 

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Oh yeah...
At my age, my demographic is mostly 40s into early 50s... though I would consider up to my age and maybe a little older... IF she looks good for her age.

Just yesterday I had a first date with a 54yo... though like myself, she looked more like mid-40s (and quite gifted in the chest department :D )
We're getting together again at some point during this week (prob thur or fri) and it does look like things are gonna get physical ;)
You wouldn't try for girls in their 30s?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You wouldn't try for girls in their 30s?
There have been a few, but the majority tend to be 40 and up, which is why I used the word 'mostly'
Since getting divorced at around 50, the youngest has been an ONS with a 29yo, and a few short term things with women of 33, 36 and 38 - but early to mid 40s tend to be the age group I do best with. (Been told I look mid-40s myself)
 

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There have been a few, but the majority tend to be 40 and up, which is why I used the word 'mostly'
Since getting divorced at around 50, the youngest has been an ONS with a 29yo, and a few short term things with women of 33, 36 and 38 - but early to mid 40s tend to be the age group I do best with. (Been told I look mid-40s myself)
Nice, do you enjoy being divorced and playing the field? Any kids?
 

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Nice, do you enjoy being divorced and playing the field? Any kids?
I'm loving being divorced - and have more than doubled my 'body-count' since splitting from the ex-wife.
Only the one kid, a daughter who is now in her 30s, and has her own family thing going on.

Actually, a few of the younger women I've been with these last few years, have been from my daughter's extended circle of friends and workmates.
Daughter knows, and is fine with it.
Her relationship with her mother isn't the best, and when we split she asked me how I'd put up with her for so long. The first friend of hers that I slept with... we met at a barbecue get-together for my daughter's birthday, and my daughter gave me the thumbs-up and a wink as we left when I drove the friend home afterwards - LOL
 
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For me it was a 36 year old when I was about 24. It was less of a thrill than I imagined it would be. Back then I thought of women in their 40s as repulsive old hags. Even when I reached my 40s and 50s I only dated women in their 30s. I thought of 40s as old and worn out. But then I’ve always been exceptionally young for my age, so I probably literally thought of myself as being in my 30s when I was in fact in my 40s
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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