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2Rocky

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i found this to be true:

Today.com dedicated a piece to the expressed reasons younger men love older women. The men who were interviewed shared numerous reasons older women made great partners, including the fact that they are self-assured, self-confident, and sharp conversationalists who are not just focused on starting a family.


 
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Advice from the old lady:

I have seen this in real life. I know several men in their late 30s and early 40s who date in line with what the article suggests. One of my best girlfriends from college married someone who is 7 years her junior. They are doing well and going strong some 20 years later.

The two men who immediately come to mind in my social circles neither want children. So they are less interested in women who are looking to be mothers (although they will both date women who are already mothers), as they aren't interested in fatherhood. Both these men are socially adroit, handsome, fit and successful. Both are considered "face" guys and both have physiques that require regular workouts. One is in healthcare, the other is a club promoter. Neither has any shortage of female attention, both can get laid easily. But both are also highly intelligent and neither one finds sufficient mental stimulation in younger women (issues of reproductive status notwithstanding.)

Not every man is going to subscribe to the views in the article, but there is a subset of men for whom this is true. One of the men I noted above is the youngest of 5 children, and his eldest sister is in her early 50's. So my guess is he's comfortable and culturally attenuated to an older age group than his chronological age would indicate.

Interesting.
 

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Yep. After having 2/3 of my children out of High school, I did not feel like starting over. I can think of 3 30 year old single and childless women that only 1 was reported to not want to start her own family and be a mother one day.

FTR, I'm 45. i want a Woman....not a Girl...
 

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This makes twice that I've recently agreed with a Psychology Today article (I viewed this magazine as going down hill toward the late 1980's).

Unlike most men, I am actually attracted to women my age or older. I've accepted dates from younger women, but (aside from the physical aspect) they weren't as fulfilling. It's interesting that when I did participate in on-line dating, the default age search was set to younger women. Each time I'd visit the personals site, I had to manually change my search to my age or older.

Although making blanketed generalizations isn't a good idea, I do believe that there's more a rule than exception... that people's overall attitudes differ with each generation. Younger gals are okay if you are only wanting passion in the bedroom. However, if you want other forms of passion on the patio, living room or while driving in a car, it's been my experience that older women provide more cohesiveness and less headaches.
 

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Dumb people is dumb regardless of age, anyway it seems to me many men into older women are looking for peace and relax more than an interesting conversation.

They know that with older women come less stress due to competition since they have less men after their woman as much as her own woman knows she cant screw up therefore the whole relationship is much less stressful.

I'm not saying this in a judmental way, I believe everyone should live the way he/she believes is the most pleasable for them so I can understand why men committed to a cause or a job want to cut the distraction and stress at home.

Personally Im fine with girls in their late 20s of upper education and brainpower but most of all no inclination toward drama (I also like to keep unnecessary stress low), while I do appreciate time with older women Im simply unable to experience that raw animalistic attraction toward them which happens stronger and stronger the younger the girl is with a maximum on the 20-22 range.

We all have to compromise at some point.
 
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Eh ,,, older. Younger. Whatever. They are all a pain in the aaa.
 
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