Hey guys, what's your take on dating older women ? When I say older I mean ten years or more, not a few years older, unless your still in you teens. But me personally I prefer an older woman for what I can learn from her. What do you guys think?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
older women: no complaints!
- Thread starter boyman
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
You are delusional young man, delusional! A woman's beauty lies in her youth, for the most part! When you are in your 30's and 40's you'll want a 16-25 year old. Make that 18-25 
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LordBrian
Don Juan
Its only illegal if you get caughtOriginally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
You are delusional young man, delusional! A woman's beauty lies in her youth, for the most part! When you are in your 30's and 40's you want a 16-25 year old. Make that 18-25
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
From my experiences, older women are only good for fukking...If they are trying to get into a relationship with you, chances are that they are trying to get married or some other sh1t...So if they are trying to fukk, you should go for them, but if they want a relationship, then no, leave it alone...
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I've always had good times with older women however they have a youthful outlook on life without having the pettiness of teenie-boppers. The amount of the age difference doesn't usually matter since they look 6-10 years younger than they are.
As for avoiding them just because they want LTRs one should ask himself if he's willing to avoid women even though they fit your criteria without giving you a lot of sh1t. Some guys choose not to pass up on that type of woman.
As for avoiding them just because they want LTRs one should ask himself if he's willing to avoid women even though they fit your criteria without giving you a lot of sh1t. Some guys choose not to pass up on that type of woman.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
That is true...But the problem is looks...Most people, including myself, would like to say that we arnt that shallow and that it doesnt matter...But when her looks start to fall off and youre still kinda young, and you can get girls that are beter looking and much younger, its hard to stay in the relationship...As for myself, I wouldnt ming being in a LTR with an older woman if she meets my criteria, its just that I dont and I advise not to for the reason above...
You guys all make good points. I generally enjoy being with older woman because I find girls my own age are way too imature.
Those who say an older woman is better for an easy lay than a LTR, you'll may be right to some degree, but an older woman will tell you what gets her off, is a lot easier to score with and will try to get you off more than a girl who is generally young. As far as older woman for LTR's its not really my thing , Ive never done a LTR and I don't plan on doing one anytime soon.
Those who say an older woman is better for an easy lay than a LTR, you'll may be right to some degree, but an older woman will tell you what gets her off, is a lot easier to score with and will try to get you off more than a girl who is generally young. As far as older woman for LTR's its not really my thing , Ive never done a LTR and I don't plan on doing one anytime soon.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Call me shallow then, I whole heartedly enjoy women with good looks. No need to deny it but she will need to have more than that going for her.
What has worked for me is that I'm not really attracted to overly made up women or model types. I prefer natural beauties, the ones that don't rely on makeup. They can use it but not to make them look different, just to emphasize what they naturally have (maybe just a little eye shadow, maybe lipstick but that's it). Women like that tend not to go downhill easily.
Even more so I enjoy the ones that are active in some type of regular physical activity for their health and enjoyment. They are genuinely happy and excited about life. That type of mindset is definitely a benefit to the attractiveness of a woman. Not only are they physically attractive but their attitude makes them even more beautiful.
Actually, those traits are great to find in any woman, I've just noticed that in women older than me. I guess they have a different type of sexiness about them.
There's a lot of guys that feel the same way though. For example, just last night I was out with three other couples in my cycling club. The topic of 32 year old Tour de France champion Lance Armstrong's new girlfriend, Sheryl Crow (yes the musician). She is almost 10 years older than him but doesn't look it at all.
Well, all of the women thought it was great that Sheryl could pull a popular guy like Lance. All the guys looked around the table and laughed because we all just realized that we all were dating hot women who were several years older than us!!!
In a nutshell, looks are important, but what makes the woman is all of her attributes combined. No need to settle for less that what you have to offer.