Shiva, I don't know if you saw my post, but here it is:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1930911#post1930911
20 year difference for me too. It was a lot of fun. Watch out for what Zarky said, though.
My cougar has been texting me NONSTOP lately, to the point I nearly classified her as a stage-5 clinger. Then yesterday she starts up with this "you are no fun anymore" crap and saying that it's like I've been really distant since our night together. And that I rarely respond to texts, and if I do, I respond once or twice and then ignore the rest.
I wasn't in the mood to bull**** around, so I was straight up and said "You text me all day. I think it's rude to text while I'm having a conversation with people. And you text me all day. I'm not gonna drop everything to respond to you constantly."
Luckily she was able to take it better than a younger girl. She said I was right and apologized, but I know it would have gotten out of hand if I didn't call her on it.
But now I have to ask the same question that was asked of me in the thread I just posted. Were you at all disappointed after her clothes came off?