"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Older women (45+) try to kino me?

PapiChulo

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What does that mean? Is it a maternal kind of thing when they try to calm my hair, put their arm on my shoulder or what not. I had one of my uni profs put an arm around me once, when at a bar. Cougars grab my cheeks sometimes (but it's a different story). They are all pretty attractive and I would not mind getting in there myself.

Some are invited to kino because I did kino them myself previously, but the other ones are out of the blue. I do treat all women as sexual being regardless of age, so that might be attributing a little.

This mostly happens at work, so I am not quite sure how to proceed with that, but I am enjoying it.

P.S. I haven't observed this type of behavior with other guys.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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their old dumb azzes want to feel sexy, get a young man to flirt or have sex with them....think "I've still got IT"
 

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But to what degree? Is it just attention wh$ring or they may be interested in having sex? How would I be able to tell which case is which if you are dealing with confident older women. On the side note, My prof used get plowed by 26 year old grad student who is an acquaintance of mine.
 

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Who knows to what degree. MOST of them don't get any brighter when they get older. MAYBE a few less games,but not the wisdom you would expect from a man
 

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sodbuster said:
Who knows to what degree. MOST of them don't get any brighter when they get older. MAYBE a few less games,but not the wisdom you would expect from a man
ha ha so true +1
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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