"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Older women (45+) try to kino me?

PapiChulo

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What does that mean? Is it a maternal kind of thing when they try to calm my hair, put their arm on my shoulder or what not. I had one of my uni profs put an arm around me once, when at a bar. Cougars grab my cheeks sometimes (but it's a different story). They are all pretty attractive and I would not mind getting in there myself.

Some are invited to kino because I did kino them myself previously, but the other ones are out of the blue. I do treat all women as sexual being regardless of age, so that might be attributing a little.

This mostly happens at work, so I am not quite sure how to proceed with that, but I am enjoying it.

P.S. I haven't observed this type of behavior with other guys.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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their old dumb azzes want to feel sexy, get a young man to flirt or have sex with them....think "I've still got IT"
 

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But to what degree? Is it just attention wh$ring or they may be interested in having sex? How would I be able to tell which case is which if you are dealing with confident older women. On the side note, My prof used get plowed by 26 year old grad student who is an acquaintance of mine.
 

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Who knows to what degree. MOST of them don't get any brighter when they get older. MAYBE a few less games,but not the wisdom you would expect from a man
 

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sodbuster said:
Who knows to what degree. MOST of them don't get any brighter when they get older. MAYBE a few less games,but not the wisdom you would expect from a man
ha ha so true +1
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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