"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Older women (45+) try to kino me?

PapiChulo

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What does that mean? Is it a maternal kind of thing when they try to calm my hair, put their arm on my shoulder or what not. I had one of my uni profs put an arm around me once, when at a bar. Cougars grab my cheeks sometimes (but it's a different story). They are all pretty attractive and I would not mind getting in there myself.

Some are invited to kino because I did kino them myself previously, but the other ones are out of the blue. I do treat all women as sexual being regardless of age, so that might be attributing a little.

This mostly happens at work, so I am not quite sure how to proceed with that, but I am enjoying it.

P.S. I haven't observed this type of behavior with other guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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their old dumb azzes want to feel sexy, get a young man to flirt or have sex with them....think "I've still got IT"
 

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But to what degree? Is it just attention wh$ring or they may be interested in having sex? How would I be able to tell which case is which if you are dealing with confident older women. On the side note, My prof used get plowed by 26 year old grad student who is an acquaintance of mine.
 

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Who knows to what degree. MOST of them don't get any brighter when they get older. MAYBE a few less games,but not the wisdom you would expect from a man
 

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sodbuster said:
Who knows to what degree. MOST of them don't get any brighter when they get older. MAYBE a few less games,but not the wisdom you would expect from a man
ha ha so true +1
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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