duke007
Master Don Juan
An older woman who I approached during bootcamp retained my email address for 2 months before sending me a quick message about a week ago. I estimated at the time that she was in her late 20s, possibly even early 30s.
Here's what I wrote about the email in my boot camp journal (bottom of page 5):
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59222&perpage=20&pagenumber=5
After a few emails were exchanged she sent me this:
(The question I asked in my last email was, "What's Santa bringing you?")
But I have two small problems.
First, how do I convey I'm only interested in something physical with no strings attached? Or do you think she assumes this because of the huge age difference? I can easily see the sh1t hitting the fan if I take this woman the wrong way.
Second, is it natural to be a bit apprehensive in knowing I'll have a shot at an older woman? I'm not very experienced, and even though I'm not quite sh1tting myself at the thought of meeting her, I feel a lot less "****sure" compared to when meeting girls my age.
Any advice from people who've been in this situation before? I'm thinking of a pressure-free late afternoon coffee date, followed up with a location change to a bar to escalate the mood.
Here's what I wrote about the email in my boot camp journal (bottom of page 5):
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59222&perpage=20&pagenumber=5
After a few emails were exchanged she sent me this:
(The question I asked in my last email was, "What's Santa bringing you?")
OK so she initiated by sending me the first email, and now she's being forward by suggesting we meet up. It seems so obvious that there's no way I can stuff this up now.Duke007
Hmm, I don't know. Hopefully a delightful surprise!
There's no way I'm working till 6pm on Friday - be leaving for Portsea at midday! Oh, was going to write more but its going way past my lunch hour.
Maybe could catch up during the holidays?
cheers, *name*
But I have two small problems.
First, how do I convey I'm only interested in something physical with no strings attached? Or do you think she assumes this because of the huge age difference? I can easily see the sh1t hitting the fan if I take this woman the wrong way.
Second, is it natural to be a bit apprehensive in knowing I'll have a shot at an older woman? I'm not very experienced, and even though I'm not quite sh1tting myself at the thought of meeting her, I feel a lot less "****sure" compared to when meeting girls my age.
Any advice from people who've been in this situation before? I'm thinking of a pressure-free late afternoon coffee date, followed up with a location change to a bar to escalate the mood.