"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Older woman holding EC with me in the train

zepo3.0

New Member
Joined
Jul 31, 2012
Messages
1
Reaction score
0
Hello, I keep getting "agressive" EC from this older woman which I see regularly in my train commute. I don't know how older she is, but I'm guessing 35 or above (I'm 29). No wedding ring (could mean nothing).

At first I thought she could be looking somewhere else, but it happened a bunch of times already, so I'm pretty sure she's looking at me. It happens a couple of times during the trip.

I've tried reacting in some ways (holding, smiling, raising my forehead), trying to get a reaction, but when I do so, she just looks away.

One of these days I held the EC, smiled briefly and she looked away. It kind of seamed that she "woke up" from the stare.

I'm pretty sure that the last time I saw her she was looking at me from behind another person.

Any thoughts on this?

Thanks in advance.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

dutchmaster

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 10, 2011
Messages
417
Reaction score
61
Location
Tampa
1) She likes you but she's really shy

2) She's so amazed at how ugly you are she can't stop looking at you, until you look back anyway.

3) She's just getting an attention fix

I'm leaning more towards #1
 

Mr.SomeoneElse

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 6, 2012
Messages
132
Reaction score
11
Location
Toronto
This is what you do

Hold eye contact then point your index finger at your chest, then two fingers at your eyes, then point at her. Indicated "i'm watching you" like off meet the parents.

then just smile and she'll laugh, you have a perfect time to approach and get her name and you can tease ****y/funny about staring being rude, or 'you couldn't look away huh? *smiling* '
 
Top