"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Older woman holding EC with me in the train

zepo3.0

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Hello, I keep getting "agressive" EC from this older woman which I see regularly in my train commute. I don't know how older she is, but I'm guessing 35 or above (I'm 29). No wedding ring (could mean nothing).

At first I thought she could be looking somewhere else, but it happened a bunch of times already, so I'm pretty sure she's looking at me. It happens a couple of times during the trip.

I've tried reacting in some ways (holding, smiling, raising my forehead), trying to get a reaction, but when I do so, she just looks away.

One of these days I held the EC, smiled briefly and she looked away. It kind of seamed that she "woke up" from the stare.

I'm pretty sure that the last time I saw her she was looking at me from behind another person.

Any thoughts on this?

Thanks in advance.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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1) She likes you but she's really shy

2) She's so amazed at how ugly you are she can't stop looking at you, until you look back anyway.

3) She's just getting an attention fix

I'm leaning more towards #1
 

Mr.SomeoneElse

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This is what you do

Hold eye contact then point your index finger at your chest, then two fingers at your eyes, then point at her. Indicated "i'm watching you" like off meet the parents.

then just smile and she'll laugh, you have a perfect time to approach and get her name and you can tease ****y/funny about staring being rude, or 'you couldn't look away huh? *smiling* '
 
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