Older woman advice

[whowy04]

Fellow DJs,

I just started dating a 25 year old and she's about an 8. I'm 23 so the age difference isn't that much, but somehow I fool myself into thinking it is; I guess its more due to the fact that she's experienced a lot more than me (dating, relationships, partying, etc.) --- I think. She's an extremely cool girl who's probably partied more than I have, which I like.

So, I guess in other words, I allow her age/experience/etc. intimidate me. Does anyone have any advice on how to handle/approach this?

 

[Eternal]

Discusionized.

 

[whowy04]

What do you mean?

 

[S0LID]

be a man!

 

[Ice Cold]

She's gonna play you. You won't notice it.

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by whowy04
What do you mean?

Just way of moving a post.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Just a suggestion, but you need to do something about your confidence level. Understand that age alone does not give anyone experience. What really matters is what they have done. There's a ton of people older than you or I that have only a fraction of our experience.

You must have something going for you for her to be interested despite the age. Don't fvck it up by going AFC on her.

 

[Diggs]

Ill give you a little advice.

21 year old dated a 25 year old definatly a 9. Treat her like a godess. But definatly be a man, know what you want, and do it. Pick places to eat etc. Try to have a slight bit of more control than her. Give them space, dont be too needy. Understand they have lots to ***** about so just shake ur head and agree. But stand up to her, make it a challenge, keep yourself exciting, dont get too comfortable. Thats bout it for now.

 

[Zangatti]

Originally posted by Diggs
Treat her like a godess.

I dunno about that! I usually try to treat woman as less or equal to me, not greater than me. If you make her think that she is greater than you, you will lose hold of her leash and she will just run off, treat you like a kid, or like sh!t. Don't put her on a pedestal.