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Don Juan
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Because testosterone levels start to decline drastically after 30 years of age.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Scaramouche said:Dear single Female,
I was in Bangalore,last year.....No way you get any stray Pvussy there without paying for it!...might as well be an old goat like me,as a callow youth like yourself,it wouldn't make any difference....but I must say to travel in Southern India is a remarkable experience....Probably your observations are correct,you will have to ask an older Man than me (Tee-Hee).
but viagra is cheap... and they are willing to pay to F the 18 year olds that you want to F.... men never get tired of fing but they loose erectile function and stamina thats all... but now they can but drugs and stimulants to get back in the game..AreYouSingleFemale said:Because testosterone levels start to decline drastically after 30 years of age.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Drastically? Men get stronger through their 30's. Look at Roger Clemens and John Elway. I'm 41 and have never felt stronger in my life.AreYouSingleFemale said:Because testosterone levels start to decline drastically after 30 years of age.