"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Older men still dating is a myth

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Test may drop, other than that, youre wrong
 

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First they dont drastically decline untill 50s, especially if a man keeps lifting weights and eating properly.

Second how do you explain the large amount of old men going after young escorts? do they do out of boredom? I mean they waste money for no reason?
 

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It depends on the guy. I'm 54, my girlfriend is 15 years younger. No testosterone replacement or Viagra.

It helps to keep your weight down and to lift weights.
 

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Dear single Female,
I was in Bangalore,last year.....No way you get any stray Pvussy there without paying for it!...might as well be an old goat like me,as a callow youth like yourself,it wouldn't make any difference....but I must say to travel in Southern India is a remarkable experience....Probably your observations are correct,you will have to ask an older Man than me (Tee-Hee).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Scaramouche said:
Dear single Female,
I was in Bangalore,last year.....No way you get any stray Pvussy there without paying for it!...might as well be an old goat like me,as a callow youth like yourself,it wouldn't make any difference....but I must say to travel in Southern India is a remarkable experience....Probably your observations are correct,you will have to ask an older Man than me (Tee-Hee).

Scara did you find the local girls open to your advances?

I've travelled extensively through india mumbai, chennai, bangalore and found the women beautiful but very conservative..local indian girls (non prostitutes) are a hard nut to crack. India has a highly repressive sexual culture where even the 30 years give off a heavy insecure virgin vibe..i felt there was attraction but as a white dude I was a definite outlier.
 

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my father is what, 51 years old and has sex with women that are younger than me on a regular basis. hot women younger than me.
 

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AreYouSingleFemale said:
Because testosterone levels start to decline drastically after 30 years of age.
but viagra is cheap... and they are willing to pay to F the 18 year olds that you want to F.... men never get tired of fing but they loose erectile function and stamina thats all... but now they can but drugs and stimulants to get back in the game..
 

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You're silly.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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AreYouSingleFemale said:
Because testosterone levels start to decline drastically after 30 years of age.
Drastically? Men get stronger through their 30's. Look at Roger Clemens and John Elway. I'm 41 and have never felt stronger in my life.

And I'm pretty sure the fact I'm still dating is not a MYTH (except to AlexDP).
 

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Calling bs on this one. If you have it together when you are older and do all the sh1t that is preached on here, the poon will come a runnin'! Even 20 or 30 yrs younger. T has little to do with it. For you single guys, remember that you need to isolate, escalate and fornicate no matter what your age may be, even her's for that matter.
 

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not sure if serious... :yawn:

Personal experience shows the direct opposite. many 30-something date younger, same age or older. besides, sex drive is subjective like most other physiological features. a 50 or 60 year old man can still want and get sex everyday if he chooses, based on his sex drive and overall level of horniess. :box: :woo:
 
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