Older men are better in bed

[Crow]

This chick, six years my senior likes to tell me how she is attracted to older men and that they are better in bed.

First, why do women think this is true?

Second, how should I break it to her gently that she needs to give it up?

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Crow,Oh Mate this is a vast simplification,growing old wreaks havoc on a Males sexual powers,at 40 it is said 40% have problems,at50=50%,at 60=60%,but at 90,20% still manage...but it is not all downside...As Bretto suggests,as you age you get more experienced,this is true particularly if you work out,eat well and keep your mind alert...Can I say as a young man I would be a bit rough,girls in general like a slow gentle lover,also my sheer enthusiasm caused premature ejaculation...now the decline in sensitivity together with learning a few techniques enables me to keep going for an hour no worries,Kegals have been a great help...At 64 I still manage sex most days,on a recent cruise with a lovely Chinese girl,we made out three times a day...I have always kept my pipes flushed as a matter of health...Use it or lose it...for someone still working the consequent drain on nutrients and energy would be a problem...I tried the Tao approach,trained and yes no problem,but my fear of Prostate problems,the curse of older chaps,made me go back to the natural way....So don't be too worried about aging,the pool of Women increases as does the age difference you may aspire too....My learning to dance was what opened fit sexual young Women up to me...Another observation is that Sexually active people don't seem to age as much as their less active contemporaries,now most people would conclude that this is not a surprise,that they were genetically superior to start with,others that the environmental stimuli encourages healthy life styles,but I believe that sex actually fools your body into thinking it is young...So Lads bang away for longevity....

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

This chick, six years my senior likes to tell me how she is attracted to older men and that they are better in bed.

First, why do women think this is true?

She assumes that a older guy would have gained more experience from having more encounters and gaining more "abilities." You'd realize this if you were older.

Second, how should I break it to her gently that she needs to give it up?

Beg her to give you a chance without sounding too whiny.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Because older guys know about the 3 hour special.

 

[decades]

because they have huge wallets. :moon:

 

[HandyAndy]

Experience.....

 

[DonJuan11]

Second, how should I break it to her gently that she needs to give it up?

LOL. Tell her if you don't use your equipment ASAP, you might forget how.

 

[Sir-M]

This chick, six years my senior likes to tell me how she is attracted to older men and that they are better in bed.

First, why do women think this is true?

Second, how should I break it to her gently that she needs to give it up?

Hmm.. well i have nevr quite met a mature man with AFC tendencies... it is assumed they is better in bed cause they got more experience.. haha.. lol.. ya sure. pop a viagra pill or two to get going.. but anyway. older men probably means 6-10years. except in special cases like Hugh Hefner.

you wanna tell her to give up??? does she wanna give up?? you want this girl hey?? tell Catherine Zeta Jones that she needs to give up with Michael first.. let her do her thing, if you want her.. give her reasons to want you instead of older men

 

[STR8UP]

Why am I better in bed now than when I was 21?

Experience and knowledge of how to pleasure a woman. I pay attention. I watch for subtle and not so subtle signs that she is enjoying what I am doing.

 

[SmoothTalker]

If that's her thing, I don't really know why she should give up? Lol for some reason I don't understand some guys like cougars and milfs, so I guess she's the female version.

 

[insidious]

I suspect that as with most women, her experience is tainted with her expectations.

She thinks older guys are better lovers? That's a reflection on her and her desires, probably not reality. I'm sure there are great lovers in all age ranges, and I'm sure there are crappy lovers in all age ranges.

The thing I can say about being older is that my aim is steady and I'm unruffled and her body is my stage.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Why am I better in bed now than when I was 21?

Experience and knowledge of how to pleasure a woman. I pay attention. I watch for subtle and not so subtle signs that she is enjoying what I am doing.

I think this is a little BS mixed in with a little truth.

The real truth is to bang her like you see in a porno movie and don't bust a nut for an hour or 2.

This is what keeps her coming back.

 

[betterthandead]

BULLSH!T!

Ever heard these words?

"Your c*ck is the biggest ever" or "Your c*ck is the right size for me"

"I've never really orgasmed before, you must be doing something right"

"Older guys are better in bed" or "Older women are better in bed"

People say things just to make you feel unique and special when all they're doing is trying to make you feel like you have the greatest person in the world : not you of course the person you're with.

 

[AKA FLEX]

This chick, six years my senior likes to tell me how she is attracted to older men and that they are better in bed.

First, why do women think this is true?

Second, how should I break it to her gently that she needs to give it up?

I couldn't tell you why women think that, but I can tell you that I, a 26-year-old male, enjoy sex much more with older women. Of course, women are known to reach their sexual peak between 35 and 40, while men supposedly begin to lose their vitality in their mid-to-late twenties.

For those reasons, I've always conjectured that the best match is a late-teen or early-twenties male and an older woman. I had a three-month sexual relationship with a 40-year-old woman last fall, and I don't think better sex has ever been had anywhere on the planet. I'm talking INCREDIBLE for both of us. There's no way that an older man has ever or will ever put it on her like I did.

Most women I know that sleep with older men are much more interested in their money than their bedroom prowess.

As far as getting her to give it up, why don't you try relating my younger-man-older-woman corollary to her?

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Bad in bed = 3 pump chump

Good in bed = 3 hour special

It's not a hard formula fellas.

 

[Crow]

ahaha. She has daddy issues.

anyway, she SEEMS preoccupied w/ establishing a relationship and that's too much.

In response to what is being good in bed, I think it only matters what is good for you. It's kind of a cumulative step- once you build enough momentum, it pushes the situation on.

 

[decades]

they also are better in banks and brokerages.