"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah, so here's the situation.

I have no mates. I have no women. I've never had any women, and I've never done anything with a woman. I've been hooked on the same woman for a year, with no results.
I know a few of women, but i keep getting LJBF, told I'm "lovely" , how I'd make a brilliant boyfriend, but they "just don't like me like that".
Don't get me wrong, I'm physically attractive, I'm cut, I hit the gym 3 times a week. I play on the rugby team, but I can't create that "spark" of attraction.
I'm pretty down about it. It's hard enough not having any mates, let alone no women.
What can I do? I've read the bible cover to cover. I've been here since I was 14 and nothing, I've improved myself beyond regocnition, but nothing.

Cheers,
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tom00

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I'm 17. I've had enough. I work my arse off with women and all I ever get is to be a friend.
 
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I've been there, my friend. When I was in the USAF, I hung around with a female "friend" that every guy on base wanted to bang. She would tell me things like "you're a diamond in the rough" and "any girl would be lucky to have you" and other forms of BS. Then one day she came to me all upset and announced that she had been to see the 1st Sergeant privately about something and "offered him her body." (He declined)

That was 20 years ago and it still took me until this year to really get a clue.
 
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WesCottII

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You know what man. You described my life a couple of years back.

You arn't happy with yourself, If you arn't happy with yourself, how can expect to attract women? Obviously you are a virgin, and I think you place to much worth on losing your virginity.
Stop for a moment. Just enjoy the ride, not the destination, focus on your own goals, getting cut.....doing well in the team etc. As Pook puts it "women are there to make life better, not to be life" or something to that effect.

And furthermore, the girls at school arn't the only girls in the world, get out to some clubs or something. GET OUT THERE MAN!!! good luck, let me now how it goes. Anyone else got any advice for the kid?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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Originally posted by Tom00
Yeah, so here's the situation.

I have no mates. I have no women. I've never had any women, and I've never done anything with a woman. I've been hooked on the same woman for a year, with no results.
I know a few of women, but i keep getting LJBF, told I'm "lovely" , how I'd make a brilliant boyfriend, but they "just don't like me like that".
Don't get me wrong, I'm physically attractive, I'm cut, I hit the gym 3 times a week. I play on the rugby team, but I can't create that "spark" of attraction.
I'm pretty down about it. It's hard enough not having any mates, let alone no women.
What can I do? I've read the bible cover to cover. I've been here since I was 14 and nothing, I've improved myself beyond regocnition, but nothing.

Cheers,
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What you can do is join us here:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=86985

We're halfway through the first week, but I'm sure you can join in. We're all pulling for each other, so don't give up.
 
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