"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Older girl target....

keemojung

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Im 20 yrs old currently studying in my junior year.

I play badminton 3-4 times a week with my group at the dorm near my uni.

Every people in the group is older than me.

They are like 25++ yrs old. (my seniors)

Yesterday, there is one more member joined.

She is 25 yrs old, good-looking.

She is the friend of my seniors in the badminton group.

The bottom line is I like her and wanna hit on her.

What should i do?


Yesterday, I try to make a joke with her, tease.

I mostly tease her abt her age, height, weight things like that.

But, she doesnt seem to be so receptive.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I dont think teasing about weight is going to get you anywhere good.

Tell her she plays like a girl or something situational
 

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Neg hit are good but weight is almost always out of bounds because that's the most sensitive issue for a woman. Stick to negs on things she can change overnight or sooner like clothers, shoes, etc.
 

keemojung

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Some said that I should show her how mature I am, but, I think

i will stick to the way I am cuz I know myself that my thinking

is mature more than my age.

So, for now, i just gonna keep my playful style and mayb tease her

s.times like she is acting like a kid. But I think teasing too much is no good.
 
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