"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Older girl target....

keemojung

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Im 20 yrs old currently studying in my junior year.

I play badminton 3-4 times a week with my group at the dorm near my uni.

Every people in the group is older than me.

They are like 25++ yrs old. (my seniors)

Yesterday, there is one more member joined.

She is 25 yrs old, good-looking.

She is the friend of my seniors in the badminton group.

The bottom line is I like her and wanna hit on her.

What should i do?


Yesterday, I try to make a joke with her, tease.

I mostly tease her abt her age, height, weight things like that.

But, she doesnt seem to be so receptive.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I dont think teasing about weight is going to get you anywhere good.

Tell her she plays like a girl or something situational
 

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Neg hit are good but weight is almost always out of bounds because that's the most sensitive issue for a woman. Stick to negs on things she can change overnight or sooner like clothers, shoes, etc.
 

keemojung

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Some said that I should show her how mature I am, but, I think

i will stick to the way I am cuz I know myself that my thinking

is mature more than my age.

So, for now, i just gonna keep my playful style and mayb tease her

s.times like she is acting like a kid. But I think teasing too much is no good.
 
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