Hey, I got this problem apparently. Asking out an older chiq, I had it a year ago too. So I ask them out, but all the time I feel like they're .. more experienced, and I'm not man enough for them. Really that's what it comes down to. Since chiqs usually date guys a couple of years older then they are, me being 3-4 years younger at my age (20) makes it rather freaky for me since they are 24-25. Do any girls or women on this board have an opinion about dating younger guys ? Or some guys ? Especially from my age or that did this when they were in their early twenties. I know the problem is in my mind, but if I could hear some of your experiences it might change how I feel about this stuff subconsciously. I had this problem last year when I wanted to date a girl that was older. But since then it didn't occure to me anymore since I dated chiqs of my age. So this popped up again, so I'm gonne fix it this time, with your help.
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its all in the mindset. women don't have any set agenda or plans regarding dating younger men. the success or failure of such a relationship only boils down to YOU as a MAN and YOUR minset.
think about the superiority and "in-control" attitude you'd have if you were dating a 16 year old. you'd play everything right and you'd undoubtedly toss perfect game to her. you wouldn't worry.
you can dominate older women in the same way you can dominate younger women. women are mirrors that reflect the manner of man that we are.
if you treat an older woman the same way you treat a younger woman than you have the same effect.... the problem isn't older women it's the mindset that you have. it's harder to keep that right mindset when you know the chick is a couple years older.
with older women just make sure they know whats up early on otherwise you're in trouble. experience is KEY when you wanna be successful with older women.
think about the superiority and "in-control" attitude you'd have if you were dating a 16 year old. you'd play everything right and you'd undoubtedly toss perfect game to her. you wouldn't worry.
you can dominate older women in the same way you can dominate younger women. women are mirrors that reflect the manner of man that we are.
if you treat an older woman the same way you treat a younger woman than you have the same effect.... the problem isn't older women it's the mindset that you have. it's harder to keep that right mindset when you know the chick is a couple years older.
with older women just make sure they know whats up early on otherwise you're in trouble. experience is KEY when you wanna be successful with older women.
Alright, crashed once lol.
The last one I chatted up with, just like that out of the blue, was married lol. This sure is a boost of confidence, don't wanne have any business with married women though
I don't think I have any fear left now for the younger ones, I still had some, as little as it was it was there :O
You're right, they don't seem to care if you act accordingly. It was all in my mind. Can't tell you how much your single reply helped me hehe. Thanks man.
The last one I chatted up with, just like that out of the blue, was married lol. This sure is a boost of confidence, don't wanne have any business with married women though
I don't think I have any fear left now for the younger ones, I still had some, as little as it was it was there :OYou're right, they don't seem to care if you act accordingly. It was all in my mind. Can't tell you how much your single reply helped me hehe. Thanks man.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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Charisma, you're on the right path. Women do not want a man they feel they have to coach through the dating/relationship process. In essence, if she does have to coach him, he's not a man. So treating her as you would any other woman is the way to go.
Though I find it difficult to imagine that early 20's is "older."
Though I find it difficult to imagine that early 20's is "older."
I don't think so either ANYMORE ! The 'oldest' one of them was 25, so that's a 5 year difference. They are not OLD, they are HOT ! But I thought I was reaching to far if I went for that, and acted un-me. Couldn't imagine they found us 20 year olds interesting enough to date. I'm heading to a 'young business-audience' bar this week-end to crash a little bit more Thanks for your reply
But I thought I was reaching to far if I went for that, and acted un-me. Couldn't imagine they found us 20 year olds interesting enough to date. I'm heading to a 'young business-audience' bar this week-end to crash a little bit more Thanks for your reply