"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Older Brother is going to Hong Kong

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My older brother is being forced to go to Hong Kong alone for 2 months on business. Im not thrilled with the fact he is going. I have always looked after him my entire life. He is the closest thing i have to an actually friend. I would give my life for him to live. Thats the kind of relationship we have. I remember one time he got into a fight with a kid at school, he got hurt big time. The next day i walked up to the kid and choked him out in front of the whole cafe. I actually thought i killed the kid.

Im concerned with him going to China. I dont even know what to do, i dont want him to end up hurt or something happening to him. His gf doesnt seem to even care to much about the fact. I am concerned for his safety while staying there.

Any tips you know of that i can give him? I would really appreciate different inputs. I would go just so he's not solo in a new place, but i cant due to the fact im at college. He isnt a tough male and is a very weak phyiscally.

Regards,

John
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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naoi deag se deag

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Is your brother's business in Hong Kong a secret underground no-holds-barred ancient fighting tournament known as the Kumite?

No?

I don't think you have anything to worry about. Hong Kong is pretty safe from what I hear.
 

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Apart from the Triads and open robberies and purse snatchers armed with knives and gangs and stuff, its pretty safe.

Its like New York, but with more Asian people.
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies

Its like New York, but with more Asian people.
:crackup: :crackup:


Anyway dude, you can sleep in peace. Hong Kong is not that much of "China" as you perceive it to be. It's pretty much westernized, except few can speak english :eek:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thanks for the input, im feeling a little better about him leaving.
 

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Is your brother's business in Hong Kong a secret underground no-holds-barred ancient fighting tournament known as the Kumite?
Hahaha

As for the OP, relax man. Hong Kong isn't that bad, my best friend is over there teaching english right now and he says it's pretty much like any major north american city, except with a white minority / asian majority. He also says people over there are infatuated with american culture, and that an average north american can enjoy some nice status over there especially with the girls. Your bro will have a lot of fun.

Besides, he's your older bro, shouldn't he be the one worried about you?
 

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
Hahaha

As for the OP, relax man. Hong Kong isn't that bad, my best friend is over there teaching english right now and he says it's pretty much like any major north american city, except with a white minority / asian majority. He also says people over there are infatuated with american culture, and that an average north american can enjoy some nice status over there especially with the girls. Your bro will have a lot of fun.

Besides, he's your older bro, shouldn't he be the one worried about you?
Man, Americans always think its about America dont they?

All western people are seen as being exotic in Asia.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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