"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Older Brother is going to Hong Kong

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My older brother is being forced to go to Hong Kong alone for 2 months on business. Im not thrilled with the fact he is going. I have always looked after him my entire life. He is the closest thing i have to an actually friend. I would give my life for him to live. Thats the kind of relationship we have. I remember one time he got into a fight with a kid at school, he got hurt big time. The next day i walked up to the kid and choked him out in front of the whole cafe. I actually thought i killed the kid.

Im concerned with him going to China. I dont even know what to do, i dont want him to end up hurt or something happening to him. His gf doesnt seem to even care to much about the fact. I am concerned for his safety while staying there.

Any tips you know of that i can give him? I would really appreciate different inputs. I would go just so he's not solo in a new place, but i cant due to the fact im at college. He isnt a tough male and is a very weak phyiscally.

Regards,

John
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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naoi deag se deag

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Is your brother's business in Hong Kong a secret underground no-holds-barred ancient fighting tournament known as the Kumite?

No?

I don't think you have anything to worry about. Hong Kong is pretty safe from what I hear.
 

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Apart from the Triads and open robberies and purse snatchers armed with knives and gangs and stuff, its pretty safe.

Its like New York, but with more Asian people.
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies

Its like New York, but with more Asian people.
:crackup: :crackup:


Anyway dude, you can sleep in peace. Hong Kong is not that much of "China" as you perceive it to be. It's pretty much westernized, except few can speak english :eek:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thanks for the input, im feeling a little better about him leaving.
 

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Is your brother's business in Hong Kong a secret underground no-holds-barred ancient fighting tournament known as the Kumite?
Hahaha

As for the OP, relax man. Hong Kong isn't that bad, my best friend is over there teaching english right now and he says it's pretty much like any major north american city, except with a white minority / asian majority. He also says people over there are infatuated with american culture, and that an average north american can enjoy some nice status over there especially with the girls. Your bro will have a lot of fun.

Besides, he's your older bro, shouldn't he be the one worried about you?
 

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
Hahaha

As for the OP, relax man. Hong Kong isn't that bad, my best friend is over there teaching english right now and he says it's pretty much like any major north american city, except with a white minority / asian majority. He also says people over there are infatuated with american culture, and that an average north american can enjoy some nice status over there especially with the girls. Your bro will have a lot of fun.

Besides, he's your older bro, shouldn't he be the one worried about you?
Man, Americans always think its about America dont they?

All western people are seen as being exotic in Asia.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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