"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Older better?

Livinlifehard

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Well i have never had a older woman. So i have been talking to this this woman who looks like to be mid 30s and she looks good for her age (asian). anyways i hope she knows what i am going for tell me if you think she does. First of all i am 22
second i said "i am just looking for fun i am not serious about anything"
and she asked me for my number which i gave it to her...
you think she gets the point...?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pappadapolis

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It sounds like she's calling all the shots so far. Tell her exactly what you what but don't be vulgar about it. You got to take charge and be sexual with her. It could be a statement about what she's wearing like, "Those jeans are on fire. Turn around for me." (optional-->"I'm gonna have to go to church because of you have on"). That wasn't vulgar and she knows that you like what she's wearing because it turns you on sexually, not because you're a gay fashion designer. It lets her know you're sexual without putting her on a pedastool by comlimenting her. It's all about what she does for you.

Hopefully you'll get what you want.
 

sparky0000

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maybe she has a daughter that she wants you to meet. i have had such women do that with me. i had a maid once about that age (she cost less than cleaning supplies would cost in many countries!) that was very interested in me. one day she told me wanted to ask me something, she then pulls out a pic of her daughter who had the biggest blue eyes i have ever seen. she asked me if i would be interested in meeting her.

maybe prett soon this woman will pull out a picture of her daughter and ask you the same question? her daughter might already be in college.
 

Phyzzle

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Should have asked for her #, dude. Women are big time procrastinators who might never call you. (Enough guys are chasing them already.)
 
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