"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Older better?

Livinlifehard

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Well i have never had a older woman. So i have been talking to this this woman who looks like to be mid 30s and she looks good for her age (asian). anyways i hope she knows what i am going for tell me if you think she does. First of all i am 22
second i said "i am just looking for fun i am not serious about anything"
and she asked me for my number which i gave it to her...
you think she gets the point...?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Pappadapolis

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It sounds like she's calling all the shots so far. Tell her exactly what you what but don't be vulgar about it. You got to take charge and be sexual with her. It could be a statement about what she's wearing like, "Those jeans are on fire. Turn around for me." (optional-->"I'm gonna have to go to church because of you have on"). That wasn't vulgar and she knows that you like what she's wearing because it turns you on sexually, not because you're a gay fashion designer. It lets her know you're sexual without putting her on a pedastool by comlimenting her. It's all about what she does for you.

Hopefully you'll get what you want.
 

sparky0000

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maybe she has a daughter that she wants you to meet. i have had such women do that with me. i had a maid once about that age (she cost less than cleaning supplies would cost in many countries!) that was very interested in me. one day she told me wanted to ask me something, she then pulls out a pic of her daughter who had the biggest blue eyes i have ever seen. she asked me if i would be interested in meeting her.

maybe prett soon this woman will pull out a picture of her daughter and ask you the same question? her daughter might already be in college.
 

Phyzzle

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Should have asked for her #, dude. Women are big time procrastinators who might never call you. (Enough guys are chasing them already.)
 
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