"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Older at Uni..keeping interest levels

Unilad89

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I'm 24 year male at University.

My game was pretty strong until I met this 18 year girl who ive ended up falling for.
She had me completely whipped and totally had my balls in a blender! I drunkenly kissed another and she held me over it!

I've gone from being someone who does what he wants and just generally has a great time on a night out to a bit of chump doing everything she wants. I've now realised what i've become and am fully aware the interest level has dropped!

She blew hot and cold and wants space, I suggested cooling things till after Easter.
Can i rekindle the spark that was once there?
Numbers gone, she's invited to her birthday which ive said maybe but not going. Going to be hard as we've got the similar circle of friends. Anything else i can do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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apprenticedj

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Hey UniLad,

Congrats on going back to school. GREAT NEWS!!! You have a fantastic opportunity in front of you, in my opinion a college campus is better than just about any other pickup locale. People seem to be more social and the ladies have their guard down considerably making all aspects of gaming easier.

Now the not so great news:

You're going about this all wrong!

When you go back to school at a later age you have a few advantages and disadvantages. On the bad side it can be easy to project "creeper" vibes if you don't have the right dispostion and outward appearance. BUT

On the good side you can be the hot older guy! Let's face it, college age girls are a twisted confused brood. Almost universally they are attracted to older, confident, more mature men. YOU CAN BE THIS GUY!

But rest assured you cant be this guy if you're letting some 18 year old jizz dumpster run your mind like some toy! Goddamn it man, stop that crap now! When she goes hot and cold, you go subzero. Cut this little girl off and show her YOU ARE THE MAN! There are literally hundreds of young girls walking around campus dreaming of hooking up with that handsome guy in her history course. Be that guy. :cool:
 

Scaramouche

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Dear UniLad,
Eighteen year old Girls...Oh you silly Bvgger!...I have had two Daughters at that age,their minds are like a tin of Worms...Cool it!
 
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