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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Older at Uni..keeping interest levels

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Unilad89

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I'm 24 year male at University.

My game was pretty strong until I met this 18 year girl who ive ended up falling for.
She had me completely whipped and totally had my balls in a blender! I drunkenly kissed another and she held me over it!

I've gone from being someone who does what he wants and just generally has a great time on a night out to a bit of chump doing everything she wants. I've now realised what i've become and am fully aware the interest level has dropped!

She blew hot and cold and wants space, I suggested cooling things till after Easter.
Can i rekindle the spark that was once there?
Numbers gone, she's invited to her birthday which ive said maybe but not going. Going to be hard as we've got the similar circle of friends. Anything else i can do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey UniLad,

Congrats on going back to school. GREAT NEWS!!! You have a fantastic opportunity in front of you, in my opinion a college campus is better than just about any other pickup locale. People seem to be more social and the ladies have their guard down considerably making all aspects of gaming easier.

Now the not so great news:

You're going about this all wrong!

When you go back to school at a later age you have a few advantages and disadvantages. On the bad side it can be easy to project "creeper" vibes if you don't have the right dispostion and outward appearance. BUT

On the good side you can be the hot older guy! Let's face it, college age girls are a twisted confused brood. Almost universally they are attracted to older, confident, more mature men. YOU CAN BE THIS GUY!

But rest assured you cant be this guy if you're letting some 18 year old jizz dumpster run your mind like some toy! Goddamn it man, stop that crap now! When she goes hot and cold, you go subzero. Cut this little girl off and show her YOU ARE THE MAN! There are literally hundreds of young girls walking around campus dreaming of hooking up with that handsome guy in her history course. Be that guy. :cool:
 
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Dear UniLad,
Eighteen year old Girls...Oh you silly Bvgger!...I have had two Daughters at that age,their minds are like a tin of Worms...Cool it!
 
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