"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Old Town Scottsdale, AZ

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Bottled Blonde, and the whole strip around that area is awesome for game
 

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The Bottled Blonde, and the whole strip around that area is awesome for game
I don't know...I'm not a fan so far.

It's like Miami; New York drink prices and the hot girls are all bartenders/servers. I've not really seen any attractive women that weren't out with their husband or boyfriend.
 

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I don't know...I'm not a fan so far.

It's like Miami; New York drink prices and the hot girls are all bartenders/servers. I've not really seen any attractive women that weren't out with their husband or boyfriend.
Hm, it might be that it’s so close to Christmas.

@BeExcellent is probably best to ask about the bar scene.
 

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I met him down there Weds & introduced him to my girlfriend's daughter who just graduated ASU. She lives in the SF bay area and just came in to walk this week. He's a cool guy. Great smile & fit, handsome & confident. Husband was going to join but decided to blow off the expensive venue my gf had selected for her daughter's shindig in favor of something cheaper. He wasn't feeling terribly social anyway <Shrugs>.

Its a funny time of year right now. ASU is out for holiday break & most of the co-eds have taken off for the holidays already. Snowbirds & retirees are in town. My friend's daughter used to be a bottle service girl in Old Town Scottsdale, still has friends here. Problem is that where the pretty girls go are not the cheap spots. Scottsdale drink prices are indeed high.

He's walking distance from a lot down there. I'd check out the following spots....

1. Toca Madera -back bar. Expensive but worth checking out. Can always get a club soda with lime & tip well.
2. Roc Bar-good live music venue. See who is playing, drinks will be cheaper, crowd rougher but its a cool spot.
3. Back to Coach House. Weekend will be better than Tuesday was...
4. Cala - young hip crowd. Actually might start there. Go now. More people & less snobby than Toca.

I'd do Cala first honestly tonight. Start there & see how things flow.

Headed out of town myself or I might be able to persuade husband to go hang.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I met him down there Weds & introduced him to my girlfriend's daughter who just graduated ASU. She lives in the SF bay area and just came in to walk this week. He's a cool guy.
@BeExcellent when you say you met "him" are you referring to @BPH ? If so, interesting and wondering why @BPH didn't mention it?

Anyway IF you are referring to BPH what happened with BE's friend daughter?

I assume nothing since no mention but thought I'd ask anyway.
 

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@BeExcellent when you say you met "him" are you referring to @BPH ? If so, interesting and wondering why @BPH didn't mention it?

Anyway IF you are referring to BPH what happened with BE's friend daughter?

I assume nothing since no mention but thought I'd ask anyway.
I generally don't put people's business out there unless they decide to do so themselves.

I'm a single guy from a seduction forum, and she's a married woman, so I see that could lead to some assumptions.

As for her friend, she was very high interest meeting me, but she's not really my type, so I took her number but wasn't that interested in her. Since that night, she's either had plans change (as far as which bar she and her friends were going to) or decided to stay in at the last minute.

So no, nothing happened.
 
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