"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Drum&Bass

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I'm becoming more and more fascinated with strength and power training out side of a gym.

I'm using heavy stones, bricks, heavy ass pieces of metal, furniture anything thats hard to hold comfortably and HEAVY, unstable terrain (grassy hills), people, animals, ANYTHING. I find it much more brutal than training in a gym and I'm using WAY MORE muscles than any barbell or dumbbell could ever hit.

Its an insane amount of fun coming up with exercises and its extremely satisfying to train during the most beautiful times of the day.

I got this one exercise where I hold up an old table over head and race my neighbors dog up a hill..its KILLER..and I'll flip and catch bricks to develop grip strength, or power clean stones in my yard. i'm tellin you its crazy !

gyms are cool, but Out Door/Backyard training is where its at !!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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AlexTheGreat

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I'm with you on this one, inventing your own exercises is one of the most satisfying feelings you can get :D
 

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wowww

If i ever did that, people would look at me like I'm crazy! If it works, it can't be bad, just don't go too heavy with it, dangerous =-o Does it work with your balance as well?
 

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Does it work with your balance as well?
HELL YEA !!! because of the unevenness of the ground and the awkward shapes of the weight, BALANCE is one of the main skills that comes into play.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Drum&Bass said:
I'm becoming more and more fascinated with strength and power training out side of a gym.

I'm using heavy stones, bricks, heavy ass pieces of metal, furniture anything thats hard to hold comfortably and HEAVY, unstable terrain (grassy hills), people, animals, ANYTHING. I find it much more brutal than training in a gym and I'm using WAY MORE muscles than any barbell or dumbbell could ever hit.

Its an insane amount of fun coming up with exercises and its extremely satisfying to train during the most beautiful times of the day.

I got this one exercise where I hold up an old table over head and race my neighbors dog up a hill..its KILLER..and I'll flip and catch bricks to develop grip strength, or power clean stones in my yard. i'm tellin you its crazy !

gyms are cool, but Out Door/Backyard training is where its at !!
I started with bodyweight exercises, went to bodybuilding, tried powerlifting, now more a mix of strength training & olympic lifting. I've been interested in going strongman for some time now. Lifting barbells is great for strength, but it's less funcitonal than uneven objects.

Problem with strongman is that you need a serious base of strength.
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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Yes!!! When I was stuck in Africa whout a gym we used to lift whateve boulders we could find. I always think about going back to that style.

Sometimes I do pallet runs. I'll do 5 miles with the heavest wood pallet I can find. It's big, awkward , and if you carry it wrong you get full of slivers. I haven't done that for a while....

And then another favorite is rock runs. Grab a couple of rocks that you can just barely grip with one hand. Then as you run do different exercises. Arms out to the side, presses, arm circles, etc.
I learned this when I was going through an intense climbing school. It's one of the fastest things to buil grip strength.
 

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Tyres are fun as hell.
Tyre flips, tyre drags a la sled drags, sledgehammer whacks.
 

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Checkout gpp or general physical preparedness; tire flipping, sled running, sledgehammer work, etc..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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