"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lizardking82

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When you add someone or they add you on any kind of social media, do you write to them that same day, a couple of hours later, or you wait a couple of days and why?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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For me it depends on how I met her and where.
If it's an OLD site I escalate as fast as I can judging her responses and escalating or pulling back when I feel i need to. But it's like fishing for me and I use a net not a pole. Why? Because I feel that there are so many other choices she can make that the faster I close without being pushy or appearing needy the better my chances of her not feeling like she's waiting around and in turn picking another piece of candy.

I really don't use other social media for dating maybe the other guys have some other apps or sites they want to share. But when I'm adding on Facebook or insta or snap and the likes I usually message people right then cause I have $hi! To do but I don't go on everyday. I never looked at those kind of sites for hooking up they feel more like sniper spots than shotgun spots to me maybe I'm missing out.
 

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OLD is getting worse and worse. It's mostly fat single mom. Out of 100 profiles, maybe 2 are hot. You're better off jacking off or doing daygame. Messaging the fat girls is making them more entitled and making game a lot harder for you.
 
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