"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lizardking82

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When you add someone or they add you on any kind of social media, do you write to them that same day, a couple of hours later, or you wait a couple of days and why?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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For me it depends on how I met her and where.
If it's an OLD site I escalate as fast as I can judging her responses and escalating or pulling back when I feel i need to. But it's like fishing for me and I use a net not a pole. Why? Because I feel that there are so many other choices she can make that the faster I close without being pushy or appearing needy the better my chances of her not feeling like she's waiting around and in turn picking another piece of candy.

I really don't use other social media for dating maybe the other guys have some other apps or sites they want to share. But when I'm adding on Facebook or insta or snap and the likes I usually message people right then cause I have $hi! To do but I don't go on everyday. I never looked at those kind of sites for hooking up they feel more like sniper spots than shotgun spots to me maybe I'm missing out.
 

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OLD is getting worse and worse. It's mostly fat single mom. Out of 100 profiles, maybe 2 are hot. You're better off jacking off or doing daygame. Messaging the fat girls is making them more entitled and making game a lot harder for you.
 
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