"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Old plate comes back...

TheGambino

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 25, 2013
Messages
2,751
Reaction score
970
Location
Somewhere
Okay another example why this forum always got it right.

Old plate, sister of my first oneitis years ago.

Dated her last year, went out twice, made out all that and at some point I became needy and she backed off.

I deleted her number and moved on. Ran intoo her a couple of times, she saw me with other chicks, always stayed nice but on the move.

She texted me two weeks ago, lets hang out? I told her I was busy.

Now she texts me ''Hey im going to X bar with two friends (a couple), wanna come?''

Its a 10 min drive for me.

So conclusion:

Indifference, moved on, sees me with other chicks on snap and in bars the last 6 months.

Now shes finally back with lets have drinks..

Im going, reporting back tommorow.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

marmel75

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2012
Messages
7,175
Reaction score
5,571
Or they have a bet that she cant string you along more than her sister...lol
 
  • Like
Reactions: Von

TheGambino

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 25, 2013
Messages
2,751
Reaction score
970
Location
Somewhere
Made out with her within 5 mins then she invited 2 other Guys too lmao and keeps talking about her ex, I bailed. Enjoying all the males around her.
 
Last edited:
Top