"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Old plate blocks me on Facebook. Why?

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So I was with this chick for 2 months last summer. Divorced with a kid - to be honest I just wanted to get laid - and never even met her kid.

She goes cold on me, sends me a text and says she's not ready for a relationship. I text her back and say "cool, totally agree, do what's best for you." and I go GHOST.

Turns out she met some guy the week before. A month later I meet my girlfriend and we've been together for about 8 months now and things are great.

Out of morbid curiosity today, I check her FB page because she appeared in my search results (we were FB friends) and it seems that she's blocked me! (I have an alternate FB for my soccer team, so I checked on her through that)

So, basically after being apart for more than 9 months, she does this. LOL,

Any reasons for this? I should not care - but I need to figure out the chick logic here....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mauser96 said:
I am betting she is back to single, sees you have a mate, and doesn't want you to see that she is single, because she feels like it would make her appear to be a failure.
What's up Mauser!

Well - she's a trainwreck! I don't want her back anyways. My new girl is hotter, smarter, richer, nicer, loyal.
 

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I would venture that she is embarrassed too. She's still FB friends with some of my friends, so it wasn't a mass exodus.

This was a girl who cheated on her husband (not with me though), so she's probably guilty about that anyways, dumps me for whatever reason, and I pulled some chick hotter than her. Awesomeness.

She had her shot with me, and she blew it. And I'm glad she did it!

I too, love how these low quality chicks post all of this motivational, self help crap to the entire world and then branch swing with so much ease.
 

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Ego Stroke!

Nah I'm joking, That man Mauser's right. She doesn't want to see you hugged and kissed up with another chick whose shoes she could be in. Especially if her branch swing failed like a monkey with a broken arm.

Possibilities. That's what runs through her brain.

I'd imagine she probably hit that block button when you uploaded a pic of you and the new, hotter babe.

She just had cut you off to give her time to wipe the salt off her face. Lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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