"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Old plate blocks me on Facebook. Why?

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So I was with this chick for 2 months last summer. Divorced with a kid - to be honest I just wanted to get laid - and never even met her kid.

She goes cold on me, sends me a text and says she's not ready for a relationship. I text her back and say "cool, totally agree, do what's best for you." and I go GHOST.

Turns out she met some guy the week before. A month later I meet my girlfriend and we've been together for about 8 months now and things are great.

Out of morbid curiosity today, I check her FB page because she appeared in my search results (we were FB friends) and it seems that she's blocked me! (I have an alternate FB for my soccer team, so I checked on her through that)

So, basically after being apart for more than 9 months, she does this. LOL,

Any reasons for this? I should not care - but I need to figure out the chick logic here....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mauser96 said:
I am betting she is back to single, sees you have a mate, and doesn't want you to see that she is single, because she feels like it would make her appear to be a failure.
What's up Mauser!

Well - she's a trainwreck! I don't want her back anyways. My new girl is hotter, smarter, richer, nicer, loyal.
 

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I would venture that she is embarrassed too. She's still FB friends with some of my friends, so it wasn't a mass exodus.

This was a girl who cheated on her husband (not with me though), so she's probably guilty about that anyways, dumps me for whatever reason, and I pulled some chick hotter than her. Awesomeness.

She had her shot with me, and she blew it. And I'm glad she did it!

I too, love how these low quality chicks post all of this motivational, self help crap to the entire world and then branch swing with so much ease.
 

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Ego Stroke!

Nah I'm joking, That man Mauser's right. She doesn't want to see you hugged and kissed up with another chick whose shoes she could be in. Especially if her branch swing failed like a monkey with a broken arm.

Possibilities. That's what runs through her brain.

I'd imagine she probably hit that block button when you uploaded a pic of you and the new, hotter babe.

She just had cut you off to give her time to wipe the salt off her face. Lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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