"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Old plate blocks me on Facebook. Why?

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So I was with this chick for 2 months last summer. Divorced with a kid - to be honest I just wanted to get laid - and never even met her kid.

She goes cold on me, sends me a text and says she's not ready for a relationship. I text her back and say "cool, totally agree, do what's best for you." and I go GHOST.

Turns out she met some guy the week before. A month later I meet my girlfriend and we've been together for about 8 months now and things are great.

Out of morbid curiosity today, I check her FB page because she appeared in my search results (we were FB friends) and it seems that she's blocked me! (I have an alternate FB for my soccer team, so I checked on her through that)

So, basically after being apart for more than 9 months, she does this. LOL,

Any reasons for this? I should not care - but I need to figure out the chick logic here....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mauser96 said:
I am betting she is back to single, sees you have a mate, and doesn't want you to see that she is single, because she feels like it would make her appear to be a failure.
What's up Mauser!

Well - she's a trainwreck! I don't want her back anyways. My new girl is hotter, smarter, richer, nicer, loyal.
 

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I would venture that she is embarrassed too. She's still FB friends with some of my friends, so it wasn't a mass exodus.

This was a girl who cheated on her husband (not with me though), so she's probably guilty about that anyways, dumps me for whatever reason, and I pulled some chick hotter than her. Awesomeness.

She had her shot with me, and she blew it. And I'm glad she did it!

I too, love how these low quality chicks post all of this motivational, self help crap to the entire world and then branch swing with so much ease.
 

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Ego Stroke!

Nah I'm joking, That man Mauser's right. She doesn't want to see you hugged and kissed up with another chick whose shoes she could be in. Especially if her branch swing failed like a monkey with a broken arm.

Possibilities. That's what runs through her brain.

I'd imagine she probably hit that block button when you uploaded a pic of you and the new, hotter babe.

She just had cut you off to give her time to wipe the salt off her face. Lol
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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