"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OLD photo turn offs

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Here are some female photo turn offs for me.

photo of her inside a private jet,,, oh good for you, you were F@@k some rich ass guy who flew you on his jet


photo of her at the most expensive resteraunt in town usually taken outside so you know the name of the place,,,, oh really, so I gotta take you to those Places.

No body shots, all just face,, ok sweets I know your a fat ass.

how about you guys. What photos are a turn off?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok I gotta add. Ring thru the nose, gross!

and yup , I agree I don’t like a ton of ink.
Cigarette, automatic no.
 
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This was a first for me seeing a prego sloot looking for some cawk 3176
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Flowers
Quotes
Duck face (is this still a thing?)
Blurred out face of "dude" next to them
 
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Fake mustache
Enhancements to photos such as cat ears and nose
Peaking out from behind a tree (behemoth)
Some guy standing next to her, whether blurred out or not
Studio "glamour" shots
Pretty much any travel photo
Too much makeup
Wearing sweats or anything sloppy
Shots with pets
 
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Any kind of snapchat filter
dyed hair or shaved sections of head
septum ring
group pictures of women
lots of makeup
Nothing but evening gown shots, even if she's smoking hot.
A chin that sticks out so far it could sink the titanic
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Atom Smasher said:
Fake mustache
Enhancements to photos such as cat ears and nose
Peaking out from behind a tree (behemoth)
Some guy standing next to her, whether blurred out or not
Studio "glamour" shots
Pretty much any travel photo
Too much makeup
Wearing sweats or anything sloppy
Shots with pets
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I don’t do OLD but what’s with the pet thing. It’s getting more prominent in everything. So what bytch, you have a mutt. Lol
 
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Smartone84 said:
Excessive travel photos
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Atom Smasher said:
Fake mustache
Enhancements to photos such as cat ears and nose
Peaking out from behind a tree (behemoth)
Some guy standing next to her, whether blurred out or not
Studio "glamour" shots
Pretty much any travel photo
Too much makeup
Wearing sweats or anything sloppy
Shots with pets
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What makes travel photos into turn offs? Asking for a friend.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There’s a stigma about girls who travel too much. Look up some articles online. One or two pics is fine. But when when I see girls profiles where almost EVERY photo is them in another country it makes me feel like:

a) this is the type of girl who’s on a plane once a month and isn’t all that grounded and serious about dating
B) it just gives off a weird/disconnected vibe from the girl in general
 
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What makes travel photos into turn offs? Asking for a friend.
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Tell your "friend" :0 this:
Women who are proud of displaying their travels will never be satisfied and happy unless you are frequently taking them to exotic places. Their first and foremost love is travel, and they want a man who will facilitate that.
 
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when I was looking at OLD....
Any Quotes as pictures -NO
Tattoos on chest or neck-NO
Not smiling with teeth-NO
Duck lips -NO
All pictures in Sunglasses-NO
 
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She looks like Shrek in drag
Crazy bug eyes aka Charles Manson Eyes
Chest/arm sleeve tattoos
Pink or blue hair
 
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I forgot this one. Woman connect with me through 0LD and has no photos. I asked why no photos and I’ll say something stupid like I don’t like posting photos on these sites. I could come up with a dozen reasons why there’s no photo
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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