“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Chick I took to prom oh so many years ago is now trying to get at me. I used to be totally enamored with this chick. I ended up having a total makeout fight with her tonight, although I used to be totally friendzoned. I am confused as ****, guess it was rad though.I hoesrly have no clue wtf happened or changed..still questioning motives...
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Barring getting knocked up and looking for a chump to take care of the bastard, she's probably looking at the wall in the near distance and seeing who she can ensnare into relationships/marriage.

Either that or she just needed some validation and got to your name on the list.
 

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Pretty much, I decided to take another crack today, she sucks. She was all like I know you like me and I said sure cause hey why not take a shot see if it was all I cracked it up to be in my head. Lame, she is boring and her kisses are weak. When she was all like what do you expect I just told her to do what she wants to do I don't care. That threw her off quite a bit, took a bit of coaxing to even get her next to me. I had the tension pretty high.

She talked on the phone too ****ing much.
She talked about marriage and kids.
And she talked talked talked talked.

I am going to ljbf her, should be fun.
 

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Don't take her seriously. The most likely scenario in these situations is she recently got out of a relationship and she currently has no other options. She sees you as a sure thing. Many times they only want validation or will use you as a rebound relationship before she branch swings to another guy. You could use her for a FWB, but I wouldn't take it beyond that.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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HalfAddict said:
She talked on the phone too ****ing much.
She talked about marriage and kids.
And she talked talked talked talked.
To wax positive - if your oneitis had worked out the way you wanted at the time, that could've been your life man. EVERY DAY. We would all do well to remember that.
 
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